"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is This Just Me?

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Allright I want everyones opinion.

I can get myself into the absolute greatest situiations with a girl but then I decide I like her and boom, the shyness bug hits. Its like wtf, I can do c&f, being above her and whatever the fvck else and she becomes attracted and then I decide I like her and then transform into a shy afc so its impossible to make any moves.

Yes this is afc but its gotta just be a phase. is it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey there. there is a reason why you are falling back into afc and shy behaviour when you decide you like the girl... it is because you start to think that she is important to you, in a way putting her on the pedestal, and hence start to feel that you can't do all the c&f and things that made her attracted to you in the first place. well guess what, this is because you are afraid of losing her. in order to get the girl, you must first be willing to lose her. hope this helped
 
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best advice ive read about it: go into to it to learn. hell man if you screw up with a girl, but you learn somthing not only are you better for it, but it also breeds the 'theres plenty of fish in the sea' mentality. it doesnt matter that you effed up big time with that one girl... your just trying to learn.
I think the article is somewhere on this site but idk.
 
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