"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this just me or what?

Deadly_Ripped

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Somehow, I can always find reasons to keep chasing after a girl, no matter how many red flags she's putting up. It seems to me that when a girl is really interested, she doesn't hide it.

When a woman is actually interested, any games are almost always transparent, because for every red flag there are two green ones.

It always seems that when I have to actually think about whether or not she's interested, she invariably isn't. The green flags I hold on to are just politeness, and the red flags that I try to justify are the true tell-tale signs of here interest (or lack thereof).


Do I have this twisted up or what?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yhgsvh74d

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a red flag is an indicator that she's diseased, got mental issues, messed up view of men, been abused.. well mental issues covers most of them, but don't pursue after a confirmed red flag unless you want a rotting dik and some time in front of a judge
 
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