"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this just me or what?

Deadly_Ripped

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Somehow, I can always find reasons to keep chasing after a girl, no matter how many red flags she's putting up. It seems to me that when a girl is really interested, she doesn't hide it.

When a woman is actually interested, any games are almost always transparent, because for every red flag there are two green ones.

It always seems that when I have to actually think about whether or not she's interested, she invariably isn't. The green flags I hold on to are just politeness, and the red flags that I try to justify are the true tell-tale signs of here interest (or lack thereof).


Do I have this twisted up or what?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yhgsvh74d

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a red flag is an indicator that she's diseased, got mental issues, messed up view of men, been abused.. well mental issues covers most of them, but don't pursue after a confirmed red flag unless you want a rotting dik and some time in front of a judge
 
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