"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is this just friendliness? Or is there something there?

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I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
Yes these are signs but it doesn't mater! Grab your balls and ask her out! Always assume a women likes you! Ask her out! That is when you will know for sure. Just do it to every woman.
 

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Yes these are signs but it doesn't mater! Grab your balls and ask her out! Always assume a women likes you! Ask her out! That is when you will know for sure. Just do it to every woman.
It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
 

dustmuffin

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It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
Next time you see her say hey I'm going to get something to eat after class come along.....she busy? then ask for her phone number and say I'll call and we can go out sometime. Then don't call for at least 3 days. If she shoots you down you have your answer. If you get the date after class dont forget to ask for her number!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
I don't know if you noticed but this is 2015. Every person has a magical thing that it's called " mobile phone " . I'm sure you also have one. USE IT.
 

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I don't know if you noticed but this is 2015. Every person has a magical thing that it's called " mobile phone " . I'm sure you also have one. USE IT.
Yes its a magical telephony device....I answer mine ahoy! ahoy!
 
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