"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this just friendliness? Or is there something there?

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I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
Yes these are signs but it doesn't mater! Grab your balls and ask her out! Always assume a women likes you! Ask her out! That is when you will know for sure. Just do it to every woman.
 

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Yes these are signs but it doesn't mater! Grab your balls and ask her out! Always assume a women likes you! Ask her out! That is when you will know for sure. Just do it to every woman.
It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
 

dustmuffin

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It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
Next time you see her say hey I'm going to get something to eat after class come along.....she busy? then ask for her phone number and say I'll call and we can go out sometime. Then don't call for at least 3 days. If she shoots you down you have your answer. If you get the date after class dont forget to ask for her number!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
I don't know if you noticed but this is 2015. Every person has a magical thing that it's called " mobile phone " . I'm sure you also have one. USE IT.
 

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I don't know if you noticed but this is 2015. Every person has a magical thing that it's called " mobile phone " . I'm sure you also have one. USE IT.
Yes its a magical telephony device....I answer mine ahoy! ahoy!
 
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