"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this just friendliness? Or is there something there?

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I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I really fancy her and I still struggle with all the attraction sign things.

I chose to sit at the table that I knew she'd be, because her friend was there and this guy I'm friendly with too was there too.

So she comes in the classroom and sits next to me - I was hoping she was going to do so.

We got to talk a few times and she laughed literally at all my jokes or silly remarks I made. At one point she yawned and I joked to put my finger in her mouth and she went to bite it in a joking way too.

At some points when she said something funny or an innuendo I touched arm and thigh, and she didn't budge.

Often our legs would touch but she wouldn't move.

When we were getting coffee I playfully hit her upper arm because she made a silly remark and she hit me back...

I don't know if these are signs to be honest...
Yes these are signs but it doesn't mater! Grab your balls and ask her out! Always assume a women likes you! Ask her out! That is when you will know for sure. Just do it to every woman.
 

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Yes these are signs but it doesn't mater! Grab your balls and ask her out! Always assume a women likes you! Ask her out! That is when you will know for sure. Just do it to every woman.
It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
 

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It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
Next time you see her say hey I'm going to get something to eat after class come along.....she busy? then ask for her phone number and say I'll call and we can go out sometime. Then don't call for at least 3 days. If she shoots you down you have your answer. If you get the date after class dont forget to ask for her number!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's just rather difficult since we only se each other once or twice a week :/

I've only spoken to her properly this once on Friday, but we have spoken before, but that was about the seminar itself.
I don't know if you noticed but this is 2015. Every person has a magical thing that it's called " mobile phone " . I'm sure you also have one. USE IT.
 

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I don't know if you noticed but this is 2015. Every person has a magical thing that it's called " mobile phone " . I'm sure you also have one. USE IT.
Yes its a magical telephony device....I answer mine ahoy! ahoy!
 
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