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So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

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is this IOI?

TheGameMaster

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a group of us are sitting at the bar in a pub on high stools, and the girl i have been chatting to is sitting next to me with her feet on my stool.

am i silly to think this means anything?
 

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mtlwlu

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Im not sure, depends what the conversation was like with just you two or was it a group conversation. Id pay more attenti0on to her body language, maybe she just found it more comfortable to have her feet on your stool than hers.
 

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ATTENTION:
DO NOT GIVE YOURSELVES NAMES LIKE THEGAMEMASTER OR THEBESTDJINTHEWORLD IF YOU HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT HOW TO PICK UP GIRLS. THANK YOU.

To answer your question, everything a girl does, except for completely ignoring you, is an IOI.
 

daygameguy

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r0cky said:
ATTENTION:
DO NOT GIVE YOURSELVES NAMES LIKE THEGAMEMASTER OR THEBESTDJINTHEWORLD IF YOU HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT HOW TO PICK UP GIRLS. THANK YOU.
lol

r0cky said:
To answer your question, everything a girl does, except for completely ignoring you, is an IOI.
true.
 

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It could be but like Amante Silvestre said there are many others clues going on at the same time where you could detect specifically if this is a true IOl.

Like was she lending in toward you? Was she smiling while talking to you? How was the eye contact was it flirty? Did she ever touch you during this time? Another thing did she ever make you want to flirt with her at anytime because of how she was making you feel? This can be key as this is a sign of chemistry but if your not confident to move forward it's your loss and learn from it as this girl properly gave you every sign that she was interested.

Putting it all together the answer is obvious I have actually bedded a girl who gave me the lending in toward me and smiling while talking....

You were there and your gut feelings will give you the answers I bet a hundred bucks on it you know if it was a IOl cause your TheGameMaster:D

LoneSilver

TheGameMaster said:
a group of us are sitting at the bar in a pub on high stools, and the girl i have been chatting to is sitting next to me with her feet on my stool.

am i silly to think this means anything?
 

playa99

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LoneSilver said:
It could be but like Amante Silvestre said there are many others clues going on at the same time where you could detect specifically if this is a true IOl.

Like was she lending in toward you? Was she smiling while talking to you? How was the eye contact was it flirty? Did she ever touch you during this time? Another thing did she ever make you want to flirt with her at anytime because of how she was making you feel? This can be key as this is a sign of chemistry but if your not confident to move forward it's your loss and learn from it as this girl properly gave you every sign that she was interested.

Putting it all together the answer is obvious I have actually bedded a girl who gave me the lending in toward me and smiling while talking....

You were there and your gut feelings will give you the answers I bet a hundred bucks on it you know if it was a IOl cause your TheGameMaster:D

LoneSilver
i couldnt have put it better myself ;)
trust the gut
i think that you get the feeling this girl likes you
you just want us to affirm you that this is the case
otherwise you wouldnt post
try and number close her to get a better idea if you are still confused
also
dont overanalyze that is why nerdy guys fail with women
they look at all the factors and decide whether or not they have a reasonable chance with a girl.
When they calculate that they havee fvk all chance their self esteem plummetsss.
Just trust your gut mate it wil get you far
not just with the laydees
but in life in general
 

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r0cky said:
ATTENTION:
DO NOT GIVE YOURSELVES NAMES LIKE THEGAMEMASTER OR THEBESTDJINTHEWORLD IF YOU HAVE NO CLUE ABOUT HOW TO PICK UP GIRLS. THANK YOU.

To answer your question, everything a girl does, except for completely ignoring you, is an IOI.
OMG ROFL OMG ROFL that just made my day lol

To answer your question , i dont think its a IOI but than again i would prolly mess with her about it and start feeling her legs with my legs which is some good kino.
 
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