Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
lolr0cky said:
true.r0cky said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TheGameMaster said:
i couldnt have put it better myselfLoneSilver said:It could be but like Amante Silvestre said there are many others clues going on at the same time where you could detect specifically if this is a true IOl.
Like was she lending in toward you? Was she smiling while talking to you? How was the eye contact was it flirty? Did she ever touch you during this time? Another thing did she ever make you want to flirt with her at anytime because of how she was making you feel? This can be key as this is a sign of chemistry but if your not confident to move forward it's your loss and learn from it as this girl properly gave you every sign that she was interested.
Putting it all together the answer is obvious I have actually bedded a girl who gave me the lending in toward me and smiling while talking....
You were there and your gut feelings will give you the answers I bet a hundred bucks on it you know if it was a IOl cause your TheGameMaster
LoneSilver
OMG ROFL OMG ROFL that just made my day lolr0cky said: