"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this her way of saying she wants to see me?

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Today I saw the girl that I went no contact with a few weeks ago due to her flaking on me a couple of times, (I'm busy). She came up to me at college really upbeat and excited but I cut the conversation short as I was meeting up with another girl. I bumped into her again when I returned to college and ended up walking around the shops with her after class, she basically followed me so I didn't really have much choice.

So while we were walking she said that her workplace were holding an activities day for children to get in the Christmas spirit (she works at a fast food restaurant just outside of the city) and that it's going to be great fun and I should come by and try some of the activities. Is this her way of asking me to meet up with her and do you think I should go?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Odisseo said:
Id say it depends on what your goals with her are...?
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I'm looking to F-Close. There could be a LTR later on down the road but only if her behaviour improves.
 
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Yes, it's her way of asking you out. Tell her that you're busy and can't make it but one of these days, you'll call her up. That way you don't seem to available and the power remains with you. You don't really want her taking the lead or asking you out. That's just my advice.
 
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