"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this her way of saying she wants to see me?

SoulMan13

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Today I saw the girl that I went no contact with a few weeks ago due to her flaking on me a couple of times, (I'm busy). She came up to me at college really upbeat and excited but I cut the conversation short as I was meeting up with another girl. I bumped into her again when I returned to college and ended up walking around the shops with her after class, she basically followed me so I didn't really have much choice.

So while we were walking she said that her workplace were holding an activities day for children to get in the Christmas spirit (she works at a fast food restaurant just outside of the city) and that it's going to be great fun and I should come by and try some of the activities. Is this her way of asking me to meet up with her and do you think I should go?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SoulMan13

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Odisseo said:
Id say it depends on what your goals with her are...?
I'm looking to F-Close. There could be a LTR later on down the road but only if her behaviour improves.
 
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Yes, it's her way of asking you out. Tell her that you're busy and can't make it but one of these days, you'll call her up. That way you don't seem to available and the power remains with you. You don't really want her taking the lead or asking you out. That's just my advice.
 
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