"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this guy the most beta ever?

MatureDJ

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http://www.slate.com/articles/life/..._be_pregnant_with_some_other_man_s_child.html

My wife and I have a female-led relationship. Before we got married, I agreed that she could "take other lovers," while I would remain faithful to her alone. She said that she might not ever see anyone else, but she liked that I knew she could. Well, now she's pregnant, and I'm wondering the obvious. We do have intercourse, but not often. She was away on business near the time she would have conceived. I don't know whether she's ever had another lover. I could have asked that before, but now I'm afraid of how it would come across. Should I ask, or just wait to see if the baby looks like me?
WTF? :eek: :eek:

My opinion: :down:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Victory Unlimited

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MatureDJ,

1. Coming from where I'm from, I find it incredibly hard to believe that there are SO MANY men in this world that are actually THAT weak. Some of these dating advice column letters are so ridiculously lame that I sincerely HOPE that they're fake. (I know...I know...I may be delusional, but I REALLY want for my delusion to be true this time. lol)

2. NO MAN in the 21st Century who still refers to having sex with his wife as "having intercourse" is EVER gonna make the top ten of ANY modern-day, western woman's "Sexiest Guy" list.


V.U.
 

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Speechless. I've been sitting here for like ten minutes trying to figure this out.

And I realize I'm glad I'm not equipped to understand.
 

donking

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This story was concocted by a sick female jew. Media pushes a lot of disgusting sheet, don't buy into everything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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