"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this guy the most beta ever?

MatureDJ

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http://www.slate.com/articles/life/..._be_pregnant_with_some_other_man_s_child.html

My wife and I have a female-led relationship. Before we got married, I agreed that she could "take other lovers," while I would remain faithful to her alone. She said that she might not ever see anyone else, but she liked that I knew she could. Well, now she's pregnant, and I'm wondering the obvious. We do have intercourse, but not often. She was away on business near the time she would have conceived. I don't know whether she's ever had another lover. I could have asked that before, but now I'm afraid of how it would come across. Should I ask, or just wait to see if the baby looks like me?
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WTF? :eek: :eek:

My opinion: :down:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Victory Unlimited

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MatureDJ,

1. Coming from where I'm from, I find it incredibly hard to believe that there are SO MANY men in this world that are actually THAT weak. Some of these dating advice column letters are so ridiculously lame that I sincerely HOPE that they're fake. (I know...I know...I may be delusional, but I REALLY want for my delusion to be true this time. lol)

2. NO MAN in the 21st Century who still refers to having sex with his wife as "having intercourse" is EVER gonna make the top ten of ANY modern-day, western woman's "Sexiest Guy" list.


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Speechless. I've been sitting here for like ten minutes trying to figure this out.

And I realize I'm glad I'm not equipped to understand.
 
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This story was concocted by a sick female jew. Media pushes a lot of disgusting sheet, don't buy into everything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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