I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2 said:either they're fake/faked or this man is the DJ messiah, what we all aspire to be.
here's a tip: an attractive muscular dude with confidence can not be beta no matter what he does.zinc4 said:I think it's real, because i do the exact same stuff in my apartment as soon as we both sit down and am very aggressive about the kiss..just like him..it works..have never tried it in public though that quickly after meeting a girl because of social conditioning....and those questions he asks are curious to me...because i stopped asking questions like that a long time ago thinking it was needy sounding or beta..but i suppose everything works with confidence behind it... will go out and field test this exact routine later this week and report results...i live in Taiwan and people never openly kiss in public here plus a white guy sticks out like a sore thumb anywhere you are, but still women are women..it should work if they think i'm attractive enough...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zinc4 said:I just saw where his guy was arrested or a prank...type in his name on youtube and you will find quite a bit of links..i guess it is fake....he still seems like a natural, though
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Us2kv0kzYxM
Here is his zombie prank clip...he goes to Martin Luther king blvd in Miami which is basically the hood to do this...i thought this was hilarious...you have to have major balls to do this...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4awVqRr1eCo
zinc4 said:I think it's real, because i do the exact same stuff in my apartment as soon as we both sit down and am very aggressive about the kiss..just like him..it works..have never tried it in public though that quickly after meeting a girl because of social conditioning....and those questions he asks are curious to me...because i stopped asking questions like that a long time ago thinking it was needy sounding or beta..but i suppose everything works with confidence behind it... will go out and field test this exact routine later this week and report results...i live in Taiwan and people never openly kiss in public here plus a white guy sticks out like a sore thumb anywhere you are, but still women are women..it should work if they think i'm attractive enough...