Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2 said:either they're fake/faked or this man is the DJ messiah, what we all aspire to be.
here's a tip: an attractive muscular dude with confidence can not be beta no matter what he does.zinc4 said:I think it's real, because i do the exact same stuff in my apartment as soon as we both sit down and am very aggressive about the kiss..just like him..it works..have never tried it in public though that quickly after meeting a girl because of social conditioning....and those questions he asks are curious to me...because i stopped asking questions like that a long time ago thinking it was needy sounding or beta..but i suppose everything works with confidence behind it... will go out and field test this exact routine later this week and report results...i live in Taiwan and people never openly kiss in public here plus a white guy sticks out like a sore thumb anywhere you are, but still women are women..it should work if they think i'm attractive enough...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zinc4 said:I just saw where his guy was arrested or a prank...type in his name on youtube and you will find quite a bit of links..i guess it is fake....he still seems like a natural, though
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Us2kv0kzYxM
Here is his zombie prank clip...he goes to Martin Luther king blvd in Miami which is basically the hood to do this...i thought this was hilarious...you have to have major balls to do this...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4awVqRr1eCo
zinc4 said:I think it's real, because i do the exact same stuff in my apartment as soon as we both sit down and am very aggressive about the kiss..just like him..it works..have never tried it in public though that quickly after meeting a girl because of social conditioning....and those questions he asks are curious to me...because i stopped asking questions like that a long time ago thinking it was needy sounding or beta..but i suppose everything works with confidence behind it... will go out and field test this exact routine later this week and report results...i live in Taiwan and people never openly kiss in public here plus a white guy sticks out like a sore thumb anywhere you are, but still women are women..it should work if they think i'm attractive enough...