"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is this guy a DJ or an AFC?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If he got her in THAT state of horniness and desire to **** him he must of been doing something right, and that is ignoring her like he doesn't want to have sex with her, and this drove her crazy.
We don't know what is going on in his head to know if he's having an AFC or DJish mentality. Maybe he didn't want to sleep with her because he's just seriously insecure, so he kept on telling her to cover up, even though he didn't demonstrate it. Or maybe he really didn't give a damn, knowing he could have her whenever the hell he wants, and concentrating on more important things than an easy fuk.
We don't know what is going on in his head to know if he's having an AFC or DJish mentality. Maybe he didn't want to sleep with her because he's just seriously insecure, so he kept on telling her to cover up, even though he didn't demonstrate it. Or maybe he really didn't give a damn, knowing he could have her whenever the hell he wants, and concentrating on more important things than an easy fuk.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Wee hit the nail on the head.Wee said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Plus even in the movie scene, she was just "having fun": having her power trip/ego boost/typical attention wh*ring for millions to see, she would never have let him fvck her on that spot anyway. Any guy who has known women long enough and witnessed his share of female manipulation can tell that...
He's neither a DJ or an AFC, he's just a guy who's not too dumb to jump to the "she wants to fvck me" conclusion...
He's neither a DJ or an AFC, he's just a guy who's not too dumb to jump to the "she wants to fvck me" conclusion...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
100% pure, hardcore DJ. I might even go so far as to say...
DA PIMP!!!11
(Not really). He is a DJ in Pook's sense, a man who is not defined by women. He actually "gets it". Hear what he said? "It's just a fu'cked up power game".
Honestly, I'd feel emasculated having that girl let me have sex with her (as hot as she is). The key word is "let". Like she can give or take it from me. That fu'cked up power game.
You know, in his place I'd fu'ck with her mind a bit. She is so asking for it.
DA PIMP!!!11
(Not really). He is a DJ in Pook's sense, a man who is not defined by women. He actually "gets it". Hear what he said? "It's just a fu'cked up power game".
Honestly, I'd feel emasculated having that girl let me have sex with her (as hot as she is). The key word is "let". Like she can give or take it from me. That fu'cked up power game.
You know, in his place I'd fu'ck with her mind a bit. She is so asking for it.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
How funny were the comments below that video, with guys saying
Tsk.
...and other stuff implying that they would've fvcked her had they been in that position.
Tsk.
Ojete
Don Juan
He could have busted her for teasing him and told her something like "well, if I turn this off, then you go by the consequences" or some **** like that, and keep filming. That **** would make her hornier and put her in a more playful mode.
IMHO, he just needed a more bold & playful attitude there, though this is a movie .
IMHO, he just needed a more bold & playful attitude there, though this is a movie
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