"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is this guy a DJ or an AFC?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
If he got her in THAT state of horniness and desire to **** him he must of been doing something right, and that is ignoring her like he doesn't want to have sex with her, and this drove her crazy.
We don't know what is going on in his head to know if he's having an AFC or DJish mentality. Maybe he didn't want to sleep with her because he's just seriously insecure, so he kept on telling her to cover up, even though he didn't demonstrate it. Or maybe he really didn't give a damn, knowing he could have her whenever the hell he wants, and concentrating on more important things than an easy fuk.
We don't know what is going on in his head to know if he's having an AFC or DJish mentality. Maybe he didn't want to sleep with her because he's just seriously insecure, so he kept on telling her to cover up, even though he didn't demonstrate it. Or maybe he really didn't give a damn, knowing he could have her whenever the hell he wants, and concentrating on more important things than an easy fuk.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Wee hit the nail on the head.Wee said:
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Plus even in the movie scene, she was just "having fun": having her power trip/ego boost/typical attention wh*ring for millions to see, she would never have let him fvck her on that spot anyway. Any guy who has known women long enough and witnessed his share of female manipulation can tell that...
He's neither a DJ or an AFC, he's just a guy who's not too dumb to jump to the "she wants to fvck me" conclusion...
He's neither a DJ or an AFC, he's just a guy who's not too dumb to jump to the "she wants to fvck me" conclusion...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
100% pure, hardcore DJ. I might even go so far as to say...
DA PIMP!!!11
(Not really). He is a DJ in Pook's sense, a man who is not defined by women. He actually "gets it". Hear what he said? "It's just a fu'cked up power game".
Honestly, I'd feel emasculated having that girl let me have sex with her (as hot as she is). The key word is "let". Like she can give or take it from me. That fu'cked up power game.
You know, in his place I'd fu'ck with her mind a bit. She is so asking for it.
DA PIMP!!!11
(Not really). He is a DJ in Pook's sense, a man who is not defined by women. He actually "gets it". Hear what he said? "It's just a fu'cked up power game".
Honestly, I'd feel emasculated having that girl let me have sex with her (as hot as she is). The key word is "let". Like she can give or take it from me. That fu'cked up power game.
You know, in his place I'd fu'ck with her mind a bit. She is so asking for it.
cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
How funny were the comments below that video, with guys saying
Tsk.
...and other stuff implying that they would've fvcked her had they been in that position.
Tsk.
Ojete
Don Juan
He could have busted her for teasing him and told her something like "well, if I turn this off, then you go by the consequences" or some **** like that, and keep filming. That **** would make her hornier and put her in a more playful mode.
IMHO, he just needed a more bold & playful attitude there, though this is a movie .
IMHO, he just needed a more bold & playful attitude there, though this is a movie
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