"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is this good or bad............?????

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Ok last night I was at a night club I saw a hot Spanish girl really hot allot of the guys in the club wanted her...anyway they were al going up saying the same stuff ........ "Your hot" "you want a drink" "you got nice eyes".....she was rejecting every guy in sight so I turn to my friend I say what do you rate her, he says "8 or 9 you have no chance" I say watch. I walk straight up to her maintained eye contact the whole way and just as she was expecting me to say "you’re hot" or whatever I say...........

Me:Those pants dont suit you
Her:(laughs) why?
Me:There not your colour
Her:Whats my colour then?
Me:Black
Her:(giggles) and smiles
Me:You know im not buying you a drink
Her:I didnt ask you to
Me:You were about to

anyway from then on I got closer to her eventually I started dancing till her brother came back upstairs and tried to hit me.......lets not get into that part.

I just wanted to hear your thoughts and criticisms on what I said to get this girl? And if you guys think something like this will work well on other women?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that was fine. reason why you weren't rejected was because it was different and unpredictable. which is what girls like :)

keep it up.
 

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"you're so money and you don't even know it!"
-Swingers, great movie


Yeah man that was nice work
 

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"you're so money and you don't even know it!"......never seen the movie but i like that quote.............anyways so thats good to hear that what i did is good thanks balla and Tails
 

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Yeah dude that was a sweet move! Do you work with heaps of chicks? If so practice your C&F on them, I do and I call it training for the big leagues! LOL! Good on ya!

Cheers!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thanks i get more support from use then i get from my friends...... ey look im a noob so i dont know what C&F is lol?????..... and yeh in reply to the question from TOOBAD "Do you work with heaps of chicks?"...i just got a job as a waiter so i guess il be workign with alot of girls.........and thanks for the support guys
 

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GUYS i decided to do the boot camp thing............and im keepign a journal so if use are intrested look at my other thread and give me tips and stuff....
 

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C+F is a waste of time if the girl is not attracted to you. It does build rapport, but that's about it.
 

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For some reason I don't believe you actually did that but anyway. Sounds like a good strategy especially for the younger ones.

And don't try to play the girls while you wait on them unless you're making the store more money than usual. Something to think about. They'll kick your lazy ass out as fast as they got you in there.
 
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