"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian

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to be honest, CA,
my friend and i both think you are too "lazy" and arrogant and too full of yourself...and you seem don't even care about anything``

that's what some girl said to me over e-mail
now back in the day, i would've loved to hear this since i was an afc, but now i don't think being egotistical is good. maybe being arrogant is not a good thing. i'm trying to become a nicer guy, but i'm confused on which path to take...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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War Against Betaism

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Reading this takes me back to when I was in high school. I was exactly like this; girls told me I was arrogant or ****y, David DeAngelo told us this is what we were aiming for, though realize later on that his book wasn't meant for high school. Don't become a nice guy, don't become a jerk. Instead, become a leader. I always try to model myself as if I was leading a tribe 10 000 years ago; all my decisions I imagine myself as that leader debating the best outcomes and results. Be nice to women, but be nice to yourself first.
 

FirstInstinct

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I find you can be ****y, but you really need to up the funniness and genuinely show you're joking - and you can't get away with some of the ****ier statements. War Against Betaism's spot on, be a leader.
 
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