Is this gonna bite me in the future

[youngprodigy]

I’ve been in the dating game since the beginning of highschool, and I never really had trouble with girls but TRP pretty much assured me that my natural way of thinking was actually right, contrary to what society tries to teach us nowadays.

Here’s my problem. Lately I’ve been craving this feeling of companionship, but the girls in my area aren’t really completely LTR material. 100% loyalty don’t exist unless you want a boring introverted girl.

So I was thinking, if I fake LTR a girl for the sake of fulfilling my needs while not expecting complete loyalty while I game other girls here and there, is it gonna bite me in the ass in the future ?

I just want a girl I can have the relationship benefits with, with consistent sex and a good dose feminine. The girl I’m considering right now is a hb9 with a really low body count but is used to getting the attention of a lotta guys. I can tell she’s attracted to my confidence, looks, status and money and the fact that I’m the only guy she’s met that’s not scared to put her in her place and actually feel beta - she’s hella used to guys giving her all the power which turns her off.

I feel like I have control over my feelings where I know it’s temporary cause I don’t see myself marrying this girl, but I wanna know if guys have tried this and failed. Sleeping with multiple girls doesn’t phase me anymore and I just wanna invest that time fvcking higher quality girls (hb8.5+) meaning I’ll be getting laid less often but when I do it’s girls that I feel like I conquered

 

[Von]

I’ve been in the dating game since the beginning of highschool, and I never really had trouble with girls but TRP pretty much assured me that my natural way of thinking was actually right, contrary to what society tries to teach us nowadays.

Here’s my problem. Lately I’ve been craving this feeling of companionship, but the girls in my area aren’t really completely LTR material. 100% loyalty don’t exist unless you want a boring introverted girl.

So I was thinking, if I fake LTR a girl for the sake of fulfilling my needs while not expecting complete loyalty while I game other girls here and there, is it gonna bite me in the ass in the future ?

I just want a girl I can have the relationship benefits with, with consistent sex and a good dose feminine. The girl I’m considering right now is a hb9 with a really low body count but is used to getting the attention of a lotta guys. I can tell she’s attracted to my confidence, looks, status and money and the fact that I’m the only guy she’s met that’s not scared to put her in her place and actually feel beta - she’s hella used to guys giving her all the power which turns her off.

I feel like I have control over my feelings where I know it’s temporary cause I don’t see myself marrying this girl, but I wanna know if guys have tried this and failed. Sleeping with multiple girls doesn’t phase me anymore and I just wanna invest that time fvcking higher quality girls (hb8.5+) meaning I’ll be getting laid less often but when I do it’s girls that I feel like I conquered

Just go for it... if she really likes you... she will give you what you want especially at a younger age. just be clean about it

 

[RangerMIke]

My only advice is don't fake anything. If you are really not committed to any one chick, then don't pretend you are and fvck around behind their backs. Dishonesty is a sign of weakness. If you want to date multiple chicks then just do it. Sure you will lose women since most women that want a one on one commitment, but date around and you will find ones that don't want any serious commitment, they just want to fvck around too. You have to be okay with that BTW, if you aren't going to commit to her, then you can't expect she'll just be part of your harem.

 

[zekko]

So I was thinking, if I fake LTR a girl for the sake of fulfilling my needs while not expecting complete loyalty while I game other girls here and there, is it gonna bite me in the ass in the future?

Probably.

 

[marmel75]

Have you banged this chick yet? If not stop the mental masturbation until you get to that point.

 

[Murk]

I did this with my ex, she was just a girl I met on a crazy night out and went back to hers, but I wanted companionship too and she was smart, we clicked and sexually compatible.

I ended up cheating on her with multiple girls, gave her chlamydia which I worked my way out of by giving her a “pill”, she caught girls texting me which I chalked up to friends and work colleagues, I’d avoid her calls.

Ultimately it turned her crazy, she even admitted I turned her in a jealous paranoid gf which she didn’t want to be, it’s awful behaviour. The last 3 months of the relationship I was fully going on dates trying to monkey branch as we could both see the relationship becoming so toxic. The s3x always remained good, but in the end it just wasn’t doing it for me anymore.

We broke up 3 weeks ago and I am still thinking about her now, she kept saying I didn’t make her feel loved, I was cold, selfish, loved attention for girls and “just want someone to f*ck and always be there”.

She was absolutely right and I feel awful about this, I think I ended up loving her, she was a good woman.

Is it possible to love a woman you can’t and don’t see a long term future with? Who you’re sometimes ashamed to invite to meet your family and work colleagues as she isn’t hit enough? It’s shallow but that was how I felt, less so in the later days, she later met my work colleagues who said she was nice, not hot though.

 

[youngprodigy]

Have you banged this chick yet? If not stop the mental masturbation until you get to that point.

I’ve probably banged her like 30 times. She can’t get enough of it

 

[youngprodigy]

I did this with my ex, she was just a girl I met on a crazy night out and went back to hers, but I wanted companionship too and she was smart, we clicked and sexually compatible.

I ended up cheating on her with multiple girls, gave her chlamydia which I worked my way out of by giving her a “pill”, she caught girls texting me which I chalked up to friends and work colleagues, I’d avoid her calls.

Ultimately it turned her crazy, she even admitted I turned her in a jealous paranoid gf which she didn’t want to be, it’s awful behaviour. The last 3 months of the relationship I was fully going on dates trying to monkey branch as we could both see the relationship becoming so toxic. The s3x always remained good, but in the end it just wasn’t doing it for me anymore.

We broke up 3 weeks ago and I am still thinking about her now, she kept saying I didn’t make her feel loved, I was cold, selfish, loved attention for girls and “just want someone to f*ck and always be there”.

She was absolutely right and I feel awful about this, I think I ended up loving her, she was a good woman.

Is it possible to love a woman you can’t and don’t see a long term future with? Who you’re sometimes ashamed to invite to meet your family and work colleagues as she isn’t hit enough? It’s shallow but that was how I felt, less so in the later days, she later met my work colleagues who said she was nice, not hot though.

We love the things that we can’t have

 

[marmel75]

I did this with my ex, she was just a girl I met on a crazy night out and went back to hers, but I wanted companionship too and she was smart, we clicked and sexually compatible.

I ended up cheating on her with multiple girls, gave her chlamydia which I worked my way out of by giving her a “pill”, she caught girls texting me which I chalked up to friends and work colleagues, I’d avoid her calls.

Ultimately it turned her crazy, she even admitted I turned her in a jealous paranoid gf which she didn’t want to be, it’s awful behaviour. The last 3 months of the relationship I was fully going on dates trying to monkey branch as we could both see the relationship becoming so toxic. The s3x always remained good, but in the end it just wasn’t doing it for me anymore.

We broke up 3 weeks ago and I am still thinking about her now, she kept saying I didn’t make her feel loved, I was cold, selfish, loved attention for girls and “just want someone to f*ck and always be there”.

She was absolutely right and I feel awful about this, I think I ended up loving her, she was a good woman.

Is it possible to love a woman you can’t and don’t see a long term future with? Who you’re sometimes ashamed to invite to meet your family and work colleagues as she isn’t hit enough? It’s shallow but that was how I felt, less so in the later days, she later met my work colleagues who said she was nice, not hot though.

If you loved her you would have broken up with her while ago since you knew you were just wasting her time.

 

[Trump]

That's funny.

My cousin told me the same story and asked me the exact same question, genders reversed.

She had been in the dating game since the beginning of highschool, and she never really had trouble with guys but TRP pretty much assured her that her natural way of thinking was actually right, contrary to what society tries to teach us nowadays.

Here’s her problem. Lately she had been craving this feeling of companionship, but the guys
in her area aren’t really completely LTR material. 100% loyalty don’t exist unless you want a boring introverted guy.

So she was thinking, if she fake LTR a guy for the sake of fulfilling her needs while not expecting complete loyalty while she games other guys here and there, is it gonna bite her in the ass in the future ?

She just wants a guy she can have the relationship benefits with, with consistent sex and a good dose masculine.

The guy she is considering right now is a hg9 with a really low body count but is used to getting the attention of a lotta girls. She can tell he is attracted to her confidence, looks, status and money and the fact that she is the only girl he's met that’s not scared to put him in his place and actually feel beta - he's hella used to girls giving him all the power which turns him off.

She feels like she has control over her feelings where she knows it’s temporary cause she doesnt see herself marrying the guy, but she wants to know if girls have tried this and failed.

Sleeping with multiple guys doesn’t phase her anymore and she just wanna invest that time fvcking higher quality guys (hg8.5+) meaning she'll be getting laid less often but when she does it’s guys that she feels she has conquered.

 

[devilkingx2]

Here’s my problem. Lately I’ve been craving this feeling of companionship, but the girls in my area aren’t really completely LTR material. 100% loyalty don’t exist unless you want a boring introverted girl.

You could look at it like this: you're not ready for an LTR until you're as boring as a middle aged guy living in a cul-de-sac driving a mini van who tells dad jokes and can't dance

Or it could be that your standards are unrealistic and you're either looking for a perfect woman or trying to lock down HB9 party girls thinking your only other option is an HB5 librarian instead of a middle ground

You'll need to lay out your LTR criteria, where you find girls, how you screen, any major rules/guidelines/general practices you have for the first 3-5 dates(like dumping girls who don't smash by date 2 for example), etc. For us to properly diagnose.

 

[devilkingx2]

I did this with my ex, she was just a girl I met on a crazy night out and went back to hers, but I wanted companionship too and she was smart, we clicked and sexually compatible.

I ended up cheating on her with multiple girls, gave her chlamydia which I worked my way out of by giving her a “pill”, she caught girls texting me which I chalked up to friends and work colleagues, I’d avoid her calls.

Sounds like you got into an LTR without actually wanting to be in one.

 

[Spaz]

As others have said, there is no reason to be deceptive with women in your own age bracket.

Many women who become bitter about FWB, hook up situations and other "experimental relationships
" become that way because they experimented with all of that during their late teens/early 20s. During that period, these experimental relationships seldom work out, can be messy and sometimes becomes very confusing, but there are many who are willing.

It's about mid 20s that the majority of women have been around the block enough times to start shutting down these experimental relationships and start preferring exclusive LTRs, monogamy, etc.

Point being, you're in your prime now and for the next few years to try all these different things because there are enough women out there willing to do the same.

I knew one girl when I was around the same age who liked me so much that she brought a new friend for me to fool around with every weekend for a while there. Then there were others who would give me the state of death if I even looked at their friends. You're going to see it all.

^^Very good advice here.

 

[Murk]

If you loved her you would have broken up with her while ago since you knew you were just wasting her time.

I kept thinking this but I liked the s3x and companionship and just rode it til the wheels fell off. She even said a couple months ago that we will not be going anywhere in the future so we should end it now so it hurts less later, we both knew the deal.

Sounds like you got into an LTR without actually wanting to be in one.

That’s exactly what happened, I wish I could dial it back and just spend less time with her but she was very needy and intense emotionally and I got swept up in the hype and excitement it felt like a drug.

 

[youngprodigy]

That's funny.

My cousin told me the same story and asked me the exact same question, genders reversed.

She had been in the dating game since the beginning of highschool, and she never really had trouble with guys but TRP pretty much assured her that her natural way of thinking was actually right, contrary to what society tries to teach us nowadays.

Here’s her problem. Lately she had been craving this feeling of companionship, but the guys
in her area aren’t really completely LTR material. 100% loyalty don’t exist unless you want a boring introverted guy.

So she was thinking, if she fake LTR a guy for the sake of fulfilling her needs while not expecting complete loyalty while she games other guys here and there, is it gonna bite her in the ass in the future ?

She just wants a guy she can have the relationship benefits with, with consistent sex and a good dose masculine.

The guy she is considering right now is a hg9 with a really low body count but is used to getting the attention of a lotta girls. She can tell he is attracted to her confidence, looks, status and money and the fact that she is the only girl he's met that’s not scared to put him in his place and actually feel beta - he's hella used to girls giving him all the power which turns him off.

She feels like she has control over her feelings where she knows it’s temporary cause she doesnt see herself marrying the guy, but she wants to know if girls have tried this and failed.

Sleeping with multiple guys doesn’t phase her anymore and she just wanna invest that time fvcking higher quality guys (hg8.5+) meaning she'll be getting laid less often but when she does it’s guys that she feels she has conquered.

Ahaha cheers for that one