I met a girl bout 7 months ago. We tried to date in the beginning and it went South, but we never stopped talking. Well fast forward to the present:
I just got off the phone and asked her if she wanted to try things again and be like we were 7 months ago. She told me that she can't right cause she has too much stuff on her mind to worry about being somebody's "girlfriend" that it makes her feel like a piece of property.
She said she still loves me and that I am the only guy that she has any romantical interest in but at this point in her life she just can't. So she tells me that she can't stop talking to me. We always talked on the phone cause we live in different cities.
I don't really wanna keep talking to her all the time cause I feel like I'm her little boy toy on a string that she can do what she wants to when she wants to with. I'm thinking about showing her what she's missing. Is that a good idea? I mean should I move on and quit trying with this girl?
I care a lot for this girl and I want to make things work but obviously if she doesn't want to then there's nothing I can do. The fact that she still wants to talk to me everyday makes me think she can have her cake and eat it too, and we all know that can't happen.
So I guess I'm asking should I still talk to her all the time and maybe eventually get back together with her? She told me she doesn't know when she's ready and it could be tomorrow but its just not right now.
Or should I break contact and risk the whole thing? I like this idea cause I think it'll stick better but I don't know if I should risk losing this girl.
Thanks in advance
I just got off the phone and asked her if she wanted to try things again and be like we were 7 months ago. She told me that she can't right cause she has too much stuff on her mind to worry about being somebody's "girlfriend" that it makes her feel like a piece of property.
She said she still loves me and that I am the only guy that she has any romantical interest in but at this point in her life she just can't. So she tells me that she can't stop talking to me. We always talked on the phone cause we live in different cities.
I don't really wanna keep talking to her all the time cause I feel like I'm her little boy toy on a string that she can do what she wants to when she wants to with. I'm thinking about showing her what she's missing. Is that a good idea? I mean should I move on and quit trying with this girl?
I care a lot for this girl and I want to make things work but obviously if she doesn't want to then there's nothing I can do. The fact that she still wants to talk to me everyday makes me think she can have her cake and eat it too, and we all know that can't happen.
So I guess I'm asking should I still talk to her all the time and maybe eventually get back together with her? She told me she doesn't know when she's ready and it could be tomorrow but its just not right now.
Or should I break contact and risk the whole thing? I like this idea cause I think it'll stick better but I don't know if I should risk losing this girl.
Thanks in advance