"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this girl using me/trying to make me feel bad/or just plain crazy?

mustang2121

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so basically there's this girl who has denied wanting to hookup with me about 3 times over the course of a year and a half. she still stood friends with me, occasionally texted/talked to me, but it never got awkward. everytime i wanted to hookup she simply said no and denied me and had no problem talking the next day like it didnt happen. apparently she lead me on and didnt want to do anything with me at all. all of a sudden, at another party this same girl was there and there was another girl there. when i took the other girl to a room and we were about to hookup, the girl that denied me texted me, called me, and i heard from my friends, she kept looking for me. evidently, she wanted to hookup all of a sudden after denying me three times and i just couldnt say yes because of pride and not wanting to be toyed with. i think she was jealous i got with the other girl instead of her but how can she expect me too hookup with her if she denied me three times in a row? did i make the right decision?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mustang2121 said:
so basically there's this girl who has denied wanting to hookup with me about 3 times over the course of a year and a half. she still stood friends with me, occasionally texted/talked to me, but it never got awkward. everytime i wanted to hookup she simply said no and denied me and had no problem talking the next day like it didnt happen. apparently she lead me on and didnt want to do anything with me at all. all of a sudden, at another party this same girl was there and there was another girl there. when i took the other girl to a room and we were about to hookup, the girl that denied me texted me, called me, and i heard from my friends, she kept looking for me. evidently, she wanted to hookup all of a sudden after denying me three times and i just couldnt say yes because of pride and not wanting to be toyed with. i think she was jealous i got with the other girl instead of her but how can she expect me too hookup with her if she denied me three times in a row? did i make the right decision?
Yeah you did... the moment she would get over her jealousy she would probably dump you again
 

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Lloyd22 said:
Yeah you did... the moment she would get over her jealousy she would probably dump you again
I agree here with Lloydd. :up:
I think this girl is just stringing you along.
 

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Ive dealt with a situation like this before.
Simply tell the girl "if you want to hook prove it to me" 9 out of 10 times she will. After you two do your thing dont talk to her. With these types of girls once they know they have you, they WILL leave you.
Yes ultimately you did make the right decision.
 

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Sounds like the sex was good! Now she wants some too! :D

You now have the upper hand, Keep it!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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