"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is this girl using me/trying to make me feel bad/or just plain crazy?

mustang2121

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so basically there's this girl who has denied wanting to hookup with me about 3 times over the course of a year and a half. she still stood friends with me, occasionally texted/talked to me, but it never got awkward. everytime i wanted to hookup she simply said no and denied me and had no problem talking the next day like it didnt happen. apparently she lead me on and didnt want to do anything with me at all. all of a sudden, at another party this same girl was there and there was another girl there. when i took the other girl to a room and we were about to hookup, the girl that denied me texted me, called me, and i heard from my friends, she kept looking for me. evidently, she wanted to hookup all of a sudden after denying me three times and i just couldnt say yes because of pride and not wanting to be toyed with. i think she was jealous i got with the other girl instead of her but how can she expect me too hookup with her if she denied me three times in a row? did i make the right decision?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lloyd22

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mustang2121 said:
so basically there's this girl who has denied wanting to hookup with me about 3 times over the course of a year and a half. she still stood friends with me, occasionally texted/talked to me, but it never got awkward. everytime i wanted to hookup she simply said no and denied me and had no problem talking the next day like it didnt happen. apparently she lead me on and didnt want to do anything with me at all. all of a sudden, at another party this same girl was there and there was another girl there. when i took the other girl to a room and we were about to hookup, the girl that denied me texted me, called me, and i heard from my friends, she kept looking for me. evidently, she wanted to hookup all of a sudden after denying me three times and i just couldnt say yes because of pride and not wanting to be toyed with. i think she was jealous i got with the other girl instead of her but how can she expect me too hookup with her if she denied me three times in a row? did i make the right decision?
Yeah you did... the moment she would get over her jealousy she would probably dump you again
 

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Lloyd22 said:
Yeah you did... the moment she would get over her jealousy she would probably dump you again
I agree here with Lloydd. :up:
I think this girl is just stringing you along.
 

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Ive dealt with a situation like this before.
Simply tell the girl "if you want to hook prove it to me" 9 out of 10 times she will. After you two do your thing dont talk to her. With these types of girls once they know they have you, they WILL leave you.
Yes ultimately you did make the right decision.
 

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Sounds like the sex was good! Now she wants some too! :D

You now have the upper hand, Keep it!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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