"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this girl using me/trying to make me feel bad/or just plain crazy?

mustang2121

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so basically there's this girl who has denied wanting to hookup with me about 3 times over the course of a year and a half. she still stood friends with me, occasionally texted/talked to me, but it never got awkward. everytime i wanted to hookup she simply said no and denied me and had no problem talking the next day like it didnt happen. apparently she lead me on and didnt want to do anything with me at all. all of a sudden, at another party this same girl was there and there was another girl there. when i took the other girl to a room and we were about to hookup, the girl that denied me texted me, called me, and i heard from my friends, she kept looking for me. evidently, she wanted to hookup all of a sudden after denying me three times and i just couldnt say yes because of pride and not wanting to be toyed with. i think she was jealous i got with the other girl instead of her but how can she expect me too hookup with her if she denied me three times in a row? did i make the right decision?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lloyd22

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mustang2121 said:
so basically there's this girl who has denied wanting to hookup with me about 3 times over the course of a year and a half. she still stood friends with me, occasionally texted/talked to me, but it never got awkward. everytime i wanted to hookup she simply said no and denied me and had no problem talking the next day like it didnt happen. apparently she lead me on and didnt want to do anything with me at all. all of a sudden, at another party this same girl was there and there was another girl there. when i took the other girl to a room and we were about to hookup, the girl that denied me texted me, called me, and i heard from my friends, she kept looking for me. evidently, she wanted to hookup all of a sudden after denying me three times and i just couldnt say yes because of pride and not wanting to be toyed with. i think she was jealous i got with the other girl instead of her but how can she expect me too hookup with her if she denied me three times in a row? did i make the right decision?
Yeah you did... the moment she would get over her jealousy she would probably dump you again
 

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Lloyd22 said:
Yeah you did... the moment she would get over her jealousy she would probably dump you again
I agree here with Lloydd. :up:
I think this girl is just stringing you along.
 

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Ive dealt with a situation like this before.
Simply tell the girl "if you want to hook prove it to me" 9 out of 10 times she will. After you two do your thing dont talk to her. With these types of girls once they know they have you, they WILL leave you.
Yes ultimately you did make the right decision.
 

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Sounds like the sex was good! Now she wants some too! :D

You now have the upper hand, Keep it!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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