Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this girl ready to be tapped?

Bigdada

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Okay, so I've been doing some real good friend-zone escape artist bullshyte, and I want to know your opinions.

I have this friend named rosalia I told you about in another post, and well, I just want to find out if she's ready to have her resource tapped. (my big goal here is friend with benefits--ah, the best of both worlds)

well, today, she was HELLA flirty with me. for example, she's really into astrology, and she was reading compatibility between signs (I'm a Scorpio, she a Pisces) and I told her to read me the compatibility between Scorpio and Cancer.
(The sign of some girl at my college I screwed and she knows about) she said quote "that's boring, let's read our sexual astrology sign, the compatibility between Pisces and Scorpio" and she told me that they're the most compatible, and she was really cuddling up to me while reading it, putting her legs over mine, etc. and was getting kind've redfaced when she read that scorpios and Pisces have the best sex! I said something to the effect of "well I don't know, never had sex with a Pisces, you think they're good in doing the damn thing?" and she told me "I guarantee you they are the best, you're speaking to one" with a sly smile;
but then she had her mother in Mexico call her, so they got on a never ending convo, killing my chances for the day.

so she said all that, and earlier she said "I wish I could get more out of you than I am now" and when I asked her "what? what does that mean" she said "nothing, I didn't say anything"! and she turned all red-faced again (not regularly easy to notice, she has brown skin lol)

so what you think gents, Am I ready to go for the goal and boldly kiss her, turning that into a "tap that resource" session? or should I let her spill feelings to me eventually?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pLaYtHiNg

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Wow. Astrolocially speaking, (if you're into that kind of thing) a Scorpio man and Pisces woman is the ultimate match, unrivaled by any other two signs. (I'm a Pisces and can't seem to stop attracting Scorpios, I swear!!) LOL

That being said, it seems like she definitely wants you, so go for it!
 

Hughman

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I third that motion. Get her alone again, bring the interrupted convo back up again 'So what does it say this week?' some bs like that.
 

LDBaha

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Do you really have to ask if she's into you?. Stop doubting yourself and start believing every girl wants to F-you.

Get her alone and start talking about something sexy or talk about sex.
What i would do is talk about the chemistry between two people and describe those feelings and what happens when you lock eyes with that person and you can feel your heart pumping and theirs and you feel like your going to explode etc etc

Get her to think about that and you're golden :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LDBaha

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oh and what type of "friend-zone" escaping have you been doing? Maybe I can learn a thing or two right now cause I have several friends who are girls that I might want to date/fuk later on.
 
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