"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this girl ready to be tapped?

Bigdada

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Okay, so I've been doing some real good friend-zone escape artist bullshyte, and I want to know your opinions.

I have this friend named rosalia I told you about in another post, and well, I just want to find out if she's ready to have her resource tapped. (my big goal here is friend with benefits--ah, the best of both worlds)

well, today, she was HELLA flirty with me. for example, she's really into astrology, and she was reading compatibility between signs (I'm a Scorpio, she a Pisces) and I told her to read me the compatibility between Scorpio and Cancer.
(The sign of some girl at my college I screwed and she knows about) she said quote "that's boring, let's read our sexual astrology sign, the compatibility between Pisces and Scorpio" and she told me that they're the most compatible, and she was really cuddling up to me while reading it, putting her legs over mine, etc. and was getting kind've redfaced when she read that scorpios and Pisces have the best sex! I said something to the effect of "well I don't know, never had sex with a Pisces, you think they're good in doing the damn thing?" and she told me "I guarantee you they are the best, you're speaking to one" with a sly smile;
but then she had her mother in Mexico call her, so they got on a never ending convo, killing my chances for the day.

so she said all that, and earlier she said "I wish I could get more out of you than I am now" and when I asked her "what? what does that mean" she said "nothing, I didn't say anything"! and she turned all red-faced again (not regularly easy to notice, she has brown skin lol)

so what you think gents, Am I ready to go for the goal and boldly kiss her, turning that into a "tap that resource" session? or should I let her spill feelings to me eventually?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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pLaYtHiNg

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Wow. Astrolocially speaking, (if you're into that kind of thing) a Scorpio man and Pisces woman is the ultimate match, unrivaled by any other two signs. (I'm a Pisces and can't seem to stop attracting Scorpios, I swear!!) LOL

That being said, it seems like she definitely wants you, so go for it!
 

Hughman

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I third that motion. Get her alone again, bring the interrupted convo back up again 'So what does it say this week?' some bs like that.
 

LDBaha

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Do you really have to ask if she's into you?. Stop doubting yourself and start believing every girl wants to F-you.

Get her alone and start talking about something sexy or talk about sex.
What i would do is talk about the chemistry between two people and describe those feelings and what happens when you lock eyes with that person and you can feel your heart pumping and theirs and you feel like your going to explode etc etc

Get her to think about that and you're golden :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LDBaha

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oh and what type of "friend-zone" escaping have you been doing? Maybe I can learn a thing or two right now cause I have several friends who are girls that I might want to date/fuk later on.
 
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