"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this girl playing games with me or what?

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Dole

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Long story short.
Went for a few drink's with this girl last week ( thursday ). Went well to my standards, she had to go next day out of town to do a model shoot. She comes back saturday and text's me saying Hey what you do last night. To which I replied Went out got crunk, How was the photo shoot?
She doesn't reply back to my text.
Sunday she calls me during the day but I missed the call, I called her back left her a voicemail saying that I am out having a few drinks at a patio and to call me back. She doesn't call me back. I call her the next day she doesn't pick up.
Yesterday as in friday I get out of the gym I have a missed call from her. I call her and the gentleman that I am I leave another voicemail saying "hey its dole just returning your call". She doesn't call back.

She is 24, I am 21.
I have known her from before we used to work at the bar together two years ago.
I just want to know what's going on through her head and some clarification's here. I am spinning other plates as well.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gottiwill

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I think your over analyzing.
You miss her calls,
she missed yours.

She could be doing it on purpose because your not answering when she calls though.
 
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It's really hard to tell what exactly is going on by just looking at the phone history.

One thing is for sure, you haven't quite peaked her interest yet. As a rule of thumb, I will never leave a voicemail for a woman. First of all I don't have time to be leaving voicemails for women and second of all, most women will just check the voicemail to see what's up and never call back. If you must, make it short as in "Hey it's dole, give me a call back"

I realize you want clarifications, but you're sort of in dead territory here. When I say that, it means that she's not attracted to you just yet, but she's not totally done talking with you. The phone calls back obviously show some sort of interest, but the only way to find out is to pursue as if she was very interested in you. Wreak of confidence and things will fall into place just like they do in your mind. I don't think this girl is playing games, I just think that she's not interested enough ATM to be a puppy and call you back right away. Time to spark that interest.
 
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