"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this girl playing games with me or what?

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Dole

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Long story short.
Went for a few drink's with this girl last week ( thursday ). Went well to my standards, she had to go next day out of town to do a model shoot. She comes back saturday and text's me saying Hey what you do last night. To which I replied Went out got crunk, How was the photo shoot?
She doesn't reply back to my text.
Sunday she calls me during the day but I missed the call, I called her back left her a voicemail saying that I am out having a few drinks at a patio and to call me back. She doesn't call me back. I call her the next day she doesn't pick up.
Yesterday as in friday I get out of the gym I have a missed call from her. I call her and the gentleman that I am I leave another voicemail saying "hey its dole just returning your call". She doesn't call back.

She is 24, I am 21.
I have known her from before we used to work at the bar together two years ago.
I just want to know what's going on through her head and some clarification's here. I am spinning other plates as well.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think your over analyzing.
You miss her calls,
she missed yours.

She could be doing it on purpose because your not answering when she calls though.
 
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It's really hard to tell what exactly is going on by just looking at the phone history.

One thing is for sure, you haven't quite peaked her interest yet. As a rule of thumb, I will never leave a voicemail for a woman. First of all I don't have time to be leaving voicemails for women and second of all, most women will just check the voicemail to see what's up and never call back. If you must, make it short as in "Hey it's dole, give me a call back"

I realize you want clarifications, but you're sort of in dead territory here. When I say that, it means that she's not attracted to you just yet, but she's not totally done talking with you. The phone calls back obviously show some sort of interest, but the only way to find out is to pursue as if she was very interested in you. Wreak of confidence and things will fall into place just like they do in your mind. I don't think this girl is playing games, I just think that she's not interested enough ATM to be a puppy and call you back right away. Time to spark that interest.
 
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