Ok, I have a situation with this girl I met the day before yesterday. I had to go to the doctor so she was the nurse, you know one of those cute girls that calls your name, then checks your pulse and all that before you actually see the doctor.
Just for the record this girl was very cute and sexy, but just a little bit on the geeky side, she was wearing glasses. I'd say she was an 8, but in her mind she is probably more like a 7, IMO.
So we are in this little room and I immediately start flirting and doing the C/F routine. She is very open to it, start smiling and laughing, and she introduces her self to me and extends her hand for a hand shake. I keep good eye contact and continue with the C/F. After a few minutes, I feel the mood is right so I say, "Would you like to go get a cup of coffee sometime?" She answers, "Sure, anytime!" and I ask for her phone number and she gives it to me readily.
Later that night, around 9 or so, I text her. She responds immediately, I wait a little while and text her again. We text a few more times, every time she responds very quickly while I wait a little while. Eventually I end the interaction and she says, "Bye talk to you soon" At this point I could tell she had high Interest Level in me.
The next day, yesterday, she texts me at 8:50 in the morning and says "Hi, call me after 5." I wait a couple of hours and than I say, "Is this doctors orders?" She responds immediately and says "Maybe" to which I don't answer. Well, a little later she texts me again and asks "Are you really interested in me?" I wait a little while and I say "You will just have to wait to find out" to which she responds "Ok, I will be waiting". Up until this point it seemed like she had high Interest Level.
So, later that day, about 6, I call her but she doesn't answer so I just leave a message, I just say "Hi, this is so and so. Call me back." Well, she didn't call me back, which surprised me because due to her behavior so far I expected an immediate answer.
So this morning, I texted her and asked her if she got my message. She said Yes and that she was at her other job and didn't get back home until 2. I thought that was kind of fishy, I mean it's a cell phone, it's always with her, she doesn't need to be home to answer it. So I haven't tried to contact her since.
So my question is this: first she seemed like she had high Interest Level and then she didn't return my call and gave me what it looks like a bull**** excuse. Is she playing games or is she just being shy or what? She is not one of those 10's that are experts at playing mind games, she looks more like a regular, a little above average, girl maybe even a little bit shy. I need expert opinion, what's the deal here?
Just for the record this girl was very cute and sexy, but just a little bit on the geeky side, she was wearing glasses. I'd say she was an 8, but in her mind she is probably more like a 7, IMO.
So we are in this little room and I immediately start flirting and doing the C/F routine. She is very open to it, start smiling and laughing, and she introduces her self to me and extends her hand for a hand shake. I keep good eye contact and continue with the C/F. After a few minutes, I feel the mood is right so I say, "Would you like to go get a cup of coffee sometime?" She answers, "Sure, anytime!" and I ask for her phone number and she gives it to me readily.
Later that night, around 9 or so, I text her. She responds immediately, I wait a little while and text her again. We text a few more times, every time she responds very quickly while I wait a little while. Eventually I end the interaction and she says, "Bye talk to you soon" At this point I could tell she had high Interest Level in me.
The next day, yesterday, she texts me at 8:50 in the morning and says "Hi, call me after 5." I wait a couple of hours and than I say, "Is this doctors orders?" She responds immediately and says "Maybe" to which I don't answer. Well, a little later she texts me again and asks "Are you really interested in me?" I wait a little while and I say "You will just have to wait to find out" to which she responds "Ok, I will be waiting". Up until this point it seemed like she had high Interest Level.
So, later that day, about 6, I call her but she doesn't answer so I just leave a message, I just say "Hi, this is so and so. Call me back." Well, she didn't call me back, which surprised me because due to her behavior so far I expected an immediate answer.
So this morning, I texted her and asked her if she got my message. She said Yes and that she was at her other job and didn't get back home until 2. I thought that was kind of fishy, I mean it's a cell phone, it's always with her, she doesn't need to be home to answer it. So I haven't tried to contact her since.
So my question is this: first she seemed like she had high Interest Level and then she didn't return my call and gave me what it looks like a bull**** excuse. Is she playing games or is she just being shy or what? She is not one of those 10's that are experts at playing mind games, she looks more like a regular, a little above average, girl maybe even a little bit shy. I need expert opinion, what's the deal here?
