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Update:

Sorry i'm a little drunk right now and it's pretty late at night.

No she didn't like me back. I decided to go to a bar tonight and saw her there; she didn't even acknowledge my existence. Later, I saw her making out with a guy at the bar, smoking, and making out with a guy in the bathroom. I'm not even upset (yet, might be upset tomorrow). I dodged a bullet. I'm going to block her tomorrow.

And you know what? I'm grateful for it. Because i'm grateful that it's given me the motivation to work on myself. Work hard on my education, work hard on my body, work on my appearance, learn "game" so I don't always get friendzoned. And to all the women who wrote me off, told me I wasn't tall enough, told me I was too skinny, too nerdy, etc... I thank you. I thank you for giving me the motivation I needed to improve myself. It's about seeing the light in the darkness.

Women don't see the value in me? They're missing out. I'm 26 with already 500k in the bank and won't graduate with any student loans whatsoever, I work out regularly, I take my education seriously, I would make a loving and loyal boyfriend. Yeah i'm 5 ft 2, yeah i'm probably pretty average looking, but any woman who dates me is going to get a steal. I'm like Tom Brady; everyone initially passes on me, but i'll turn out to be a great boyfriend when I get my opportunity. Mark my words.

-mic drop-
Why not just fvck hookers if you have that much money? What country do you live in?

That's what most guys that can afford it do... Even Justin Bieber lol.
 

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Unfortunately, prostitution is illegal in my country and the nearest place where it's legal is 20+ hours away.

I actually seriously considered going that route in 2018 but at the time, didn't have a lot of money, plus the very long distance.

The strip club is the next best option.
20 hours by plane? Lol.
 

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I don't understand how you got to 26 without kissing a girl.
 

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I don't understand how you got to 26 without kissing a girl.
A combination of shyness, anxiety, and getting rejected by every woman.
 

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I don't know. Iv'e never had a single girl (at least here) show a high interest in me. So I doubt my ability to attract high quality women.

And if we're being honest, this girl wasn't that attractive. She was probably a 4 or 5 out of 10. BUT I wanted to give her a chance partially because I want to be open minded but also I can't afford to be too picky since i'm not too much of a looker myself. I'm short, average face, and also high functioning autistic, so i'm never going to be a "ladies man". I work out and used to compete in powerlifting competitions but at the end of the day, i'm never going to be above a 6/10.
your mindset is tragic, another poor soul who has been completely crushed by society that he is some 2nd class citizen and women are some celebrity.

stay on this forum we will help you out.

your whole outlook needs a revamp, you will also make mistakes, and need fine tuning, may come across as ****y & disingenuous at first which is why it takes practice.
 

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A combination of shyness, anxiety, and getting rejected by every woman.
Please get the book I linked on Amazon. EDIT NVM...it is out of print...

 
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your mindset is tragic, another poor soul who has been completely crushed by society that he is some 2nd class citizen and women are some celebrity.

stay on this forum we will help you out.

your whole outlook needs a revamp, you will also make mistakes, and need fine tuning, may come across as ****y & disingenuous at first which is why it takes practice.

Yeah, when you have a normal functioning sex and romantic drive and go your whole life without dating, while everyone else is finding success, you'd be depressed too.

And my sex drive isn't as high compared to when I was in my early twenties; I was a walking viagra at 22. The problem was that my physical and social development hadn't caught up to my sexual development. I'm 5 ft 3 (can't do anything about that) but I was also super skinny; I didn't reach 105 pounds until I was 23 after being the same weight for 7 years. Looking back at my old photos of myself in my early twenties, I looked like a grown man on the body of a 14 year old adolescent. I remember being 21 years old and posting on the rateme subreddit; it was so bad that nobody even bothered to rate me, the only comments were "get stronger out of 10" or "get this guy a sandwich" and some guy flat out gave me fitness, hairstyle, and clothing advice. Also, forgot to mention I have aspergers as well.

Anyways, i'm now 115 pounds and i'm not super skinny anymore, but definitely not highly buff either. I honestly don't think I have the genetics for that, because I work out pretty frequently and don't eat too poorly. (at least I did before giving up)

Basically, i'm a short autistic guy living in America where many women won't even consider you unless you're 5 ft 10 and white. At 5 ft 3, I stand no chance in places/apps, that highly rely on physical appearance. I probably woudn't be successful on Tinder for instance which is 95% based on your appearance.
 
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When I asked her what she's looking for in a partner
Never ask a girl this question, make you look needy and give all your power away.

You're way over thinking this my dude, take her out, show her a good time, kiss her, if she's really worth it, you can wait before you bang her,
2/3 dates, after that I would say she is making you wait, not good, the wait is never worth it, remember NEVER worth it.

So yeah, just take her out, show her a good time and bang her brains out.

And don't get stressed about her not replying right away, do your thing, live your life, even if she takes two weeks, three weeks, happened to me before, excused herself because she was really busy, she thought I was the chillest guys ever for not caring, the truth is, I forgot I even sent her a message Hahaha
 
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