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I want to have a genuine relationship with this girl but all she wants is ****ing sex. I know girls like sex but this is ridiculous. I try having a normal conversation with her but she just wants to ****. I’m not trying to brag but idk if she’s just a sex addict or likes me for me
 

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I'm not sure what to say man. It sounds really rough.
I know it sounds like I’m bragging but I don’t even care about sex anymore because I get too much of it. I want to know if she’s just crazy
 

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There's been a time or two when I was in a slump (if other members were actually honest, they'd own this as well).

I say the above because during my female drought, I made allowances for a barfly or two. Truth was, I would have rather had a steady girl to see.. and so I tried to justify my time with some some low-hanging fruit.

While your girl doesn't appear to be a barfly, the behavior seems similar. Hopefully, yours is the exception, but this has been my experience. Women that are overly sexually aggressive ... either lack normal social skills, or it's a control thing (because they've seen men weaken when sex is offered) or maybe they are too lazy to get to know someone and this provides a short-cut for getting attention and validation.

Hopefully, I'm wrong about your girl. If you notice a few red flags, then don't make my previous mistakes of trying to make a square peg fit in a round hole . Dry spells happen to all of us. It's better to be alone, than to be with someone and wish you were alone.
 

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I can't call it off of just this exchange, I'd need much more context

But I'd say just try to appreciate her being this open and direct with you, and don't overthink it
 

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This girl drives over 2 hours (one way) 4 times a week to see me and supports me in my dreams. We’ve known each other for 2 months so she’s not just a **** buddy but she seems crazy about sex
Why are you judging her when you're going along with it... you're a freak too. Wouldn't you want your girlfriend to be a super freak like you are
 

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I want to have a genuine relationship with this girl but all she wants is ****ing sex. I know girls like sex but this is ridiculous. I try having a normal conversation with her but she just wants to ****. I’m not trying to brag but idk if she’s just a sex addict or likes me for me
A relationship? Somebody needs to force feed you red pills and get your testosterone checked.
 

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What's happening is she's amplifying and escalating the one aspect where you have control over her. This is an indirect challenge that you're losing, that's why you feel like you want to tie her down. Instead you should be basking in the god like aura she's giving you.

In any other situation, with any other chick, would you de-escalate like this or simply fuuck her brains out and not think twice?

You're too emotionally invested and it'll push her away eventually unless you man up. Every time you think about a relationship with her do some push ups or go for a run or literally anything to get your mind off it. Let her worry about tying you down.

And if deep down your gut is telling you she'll move on instead of trying to tie you down then you might be right. But you can't change that.

Don't try to tie her down, just have fun. If she starts to get cold then dare her to walk with your actions by not chasing. Do your own thing above all else. Don't simp for some pusssy, it's literally everywhere.
 

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Why are you judging her when you're going along with it... you're a freak too. Wouldn't you want your girlfriend to be a super freak like you are
Yeah but I’ve never met a girl this sexual before. I mentioned a porn video about how a guy shoved a girls head in the toilet and ****ed her and how I want the try it one day. We got into a fight and made up and she was like I want you to shove my head in the toilet and **** me. Idk man
 

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Yeah but I’ve never met a girl this sexual before. I mentioned a porn video about how a guy shoved a girls head in the toilet and ****ed her and how I want the try it one day. We got into a fight and made up and she was like I want you to shove my head in the toilet and **** me. Idk man
And you view this as a quality woman worthy of a relationship? My God guys will convince themselves of almost anything for some sex. This woman is damaged goods.
 

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Yeah but I’ve never met a girl this sexual before. I mentioned a porn video about how a guy shoved a girls head in the toilet and ****ed her and how I want the try it one day. We got into a fight and made up and she was like I want you to shove my head in the toilet and **** me. Idk man
Lmao she's just a freak, let her be her self. You'll meet more women like this over time. A girl that really likes me asked me if I wanted to pee on her, after I was standing over her and joked that I was gonna pee on her. Some women are just really into you like that, and are willing to do some crazy stuff for you lol
 

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This woman is not relationship material
+1

Was all that I was getting at. If a dude wants kids, she is feminine, fit, and checked out of social media fully onto the man, let it play. I'm seeing fellas trying to marry the village bicycle. I picked up a Muslim girl who bragged about working for a airline pre pandemic. She was of this caliber. F buddy. Guess who started blowing up my phone in lock down. No job. No place to stay.

Didn't even respond.
 

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I want to have a genuine relationship with this girl but all she wants is ****ing sex. I know girls like sex but this is ridiculous. I try having a normal conversation with her but she just wants to ****. I’m not trying to brag but idk if she’s just a sex addict or likes me for me
Why are you pursuing a relationship with a chick who clearly displays more sexual aggression than you? If the rabbit is chasing the hound, isnt that a big red flag?
Even if you succeed in setting up a LTR with her, what will happen on those occasions when you’ll be sexually unavailable to her, eg work, family gatherings, illness or..... jail?
Wont she hop onto the next pipe to scratch her constant itch?

Girls like this are good for piping only, not as partners to build an empire with. With such a high sexual appetite, its very likely that she already has subs on the bench, for those moments when you’re not match fit. Women like this always make sure they have their options lined up.

Proceed with caution.
 
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She said if you couldn’t go she would find another “ friend”. You need to realize your not in a relationship at all... you have a fck buddy... Instead of firing up pornhub call her... have your fun and realize she’s probably doing this with other dudes. Do not get attached
 
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