"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is this girl a wacko?

GloriouslyInsane

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Hello fellow djs!

There's been something on my mind for quite some time now.I met this hb7.5 back in summer,kinda a female friends friend,anyhow i went off to study abroad and lost all touch with her (i've only seen her 3-4 times anyway).At first i had no real interest in her and used her as social proof the few times she was around.Fast forward some months we meet up again and i was just browsing some pics on her pc she wanted to show me until i stumbled on a pic of me that i took with my phone 2 years ago and only a close friend of mine had (we exchanged pics to use on our phones when we call/sms eachother,personally i prefer seeing the pic of who is calling me),i was quite shocked and asked her where she got this pic,she answered with "i got it from x" (my friend).

So i wanna know if there's a possibility i have a stalker/obsessive/wacko on my hands or is this something normal girls do? I know you'll say "what do you care?" or think i'm trying to brag ("lookey i have a secret admirer!!" :p) or whatever but the thing is,after our last meeting i'm starting to like this girl (great personality) and i want to avoid any traps cause i don't want to have any drama in the future (i have enough stuff to focus on already).

If anyone has been through a similar situation please pm me.

Thanks in advance,

GI
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Plec07

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Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it too much. So she likes keeping pictures of people that matter to her. Lots of girls do it.
 

banGbro

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Memorabilia is when she has poster of 2Pac on her wall. It sounds as if she wanted you for sometime, set a goal, and now has you. Does that make her a wacko? No. You need to test her though. Great personality in particular. Is it her real personality or is she faking it so she could be with you????

I would go back to her computer and check that picture again. You want to check date on the picture. Right click the file and click properties. Click General tab, you are interested in date created and date modified.

Is this something she had for 2 years, or she just go it before she started dating you? If latter, no tests are needed, shes real. If prior, test, including tests by 3rd party.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Thanks for the replies guys,bangbro i met her 7 months ago and my bud probably knew her couple of months more than me,so in the worst case she had the pic for close to a year.

I will try to check the pic again during spring break (i'm abroad remember.. :p).

About her personality..well she was lukewarm towards me at first,then warmer over the next 2 meetings and the last time we met (before spending any serious time with her (common vacation with some other people)) she would always go out of her way to please me and sms me with "gi,baby",i mean the whole deal cook,clean etc.This behaviour + the pic led me to second guess her attitude.

At the moment i'm torn between extremities..a keeper or a wacko :p.I'm trying not to overanalyze anything and not give much thought but these females always find a way to surprise us with weird behaviours :p.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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