"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is this girl a wacko?

GloriouslyInsane

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Hello fellow djs!

There's been something on my mind for quite some time now.I met this hb7.5 back in summer,kinda a female friends friend,anyhow i went off to study abroad and lost all touch with her (i've only seen her 3-4 times anyway).At first i had no real interest in her and used her as social proof the few times she was around.Fast forward some months we meet up again and i was just browsing some pics on her pc she wanted to show me until i stumbled on a pic of me that i took with my phone 2 years ago and only a close friend of mine had (we exchanged pics to use on our phones when we call/sms eachother,personally i prefer seeing the pic of who is calling me),i was quite shocked and asked her where she got this pic,she answered with "i got it from x" (my friend).

So i wanna know if there's a possibility i have a stalker/obsessive/wacko on my hands or is this something normal girls do? I know you'll say "what do you care?" or think i'm trying to brag ("lookey i have a secret admirer!!" :p) or whatever but the thing is,after our last meeting i'm starting to like this girl (great personality) and i want to avoid any traps cause i don't want to have any drama in the future (i have enough stuff to focus on already).

If anyone has been through a similar situation please pm me.

Thanks in advance,

GI
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Plec07

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Yeah, I wouldn't worry about it too much. So she likes keeping pictures of people that matter to her. Lots of girls do it.
 

banGbro

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Memorabilia is when she has poster of 2Pac on her wall. It sounds as if she wanted you for sometime, set a goal, and now has you. Does that make her a wacko? No. You need to test her though. Great personality in particular. Is it her real personality or is she faking it so she could be with you????

I would go back to her computer and check that picture again. You want to check date on the picture. Right click the file and click properties. Click General tab, you are interested in date created and date modified.

Is this something she had for 2 years, or she just go it before she started dating you? If latter, no tests are needed, shes real. If prior, test, including tests by 3rd party.
 

GloriouslyInsane

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Thanks for the replies guys,bangbro i met her 7 months ago and my bud probably knew her couple of months more than me,so in the worst case she had the pic for close to a year.

I will try to check the pic again during spring break (i'm abroad remember.. :p).

About her personality..well she was lukewarm towards me at first,then warmer over the next 2 meetings and the last time we met (before spending any serious time with her (common vacation with some other people)) she would always go out of her way to please me and sms me with "gi,baby",i mean the whole deal cook,clean etc.This behaviour + the pic led me to second guess her attitude.

At the moment i'm torn between extremities..a keeper or a wacko :p.I'm trying not to overanalyze anything and not give much thought but these females always find a way to surprise us with weird behaviours :p.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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