Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this forum a democracy or Police State

Dongfu

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Who feels that the users of this forum should be able to vote on:

1. Mods - whether or not they should get to continue their service

2. Which threads should remain locked, should a Mod lock a thread

3. Who should remain banned should a Mod ban someone

That is for starters.

I have seen several locked threads that I would like to post in. If this forum is a dictatorship, then it should be titled as such: "SoControlled: The Don Juanshwitz Forum."

This forum would be SoUseless without people posting here. We the posters are the true owners of this site. Mods, like government should consult us, The Council, before making any final decisions.

There are some younger guys posting here, but none of us are little children who cant make decisions for ourself. If it is voted that a thread remain open or a person remain active, it should be the choice of the community. Just say no to Modzi's

Power to the Posters :flowers:
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is a really stupid mod on here who's been pissing me off lately. I don't know who he is. He has his as* for a brain. Just ban me already, this is weird. grrr....
 

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Then he should be brought up on charges. I second the motion. :cuss: :D
 

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I personally have not had any problems with the mods or having any threads closed.

Maybe the reason topics get closed is because they erupt into flame wars? I'm 17 and I think alot of the arguments that some guys start here are ridiculous.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow Dongfu you're really salty about that locked thread of yours aren't you. I personally don't think it should've been locked. And I also think threads about race that are strictly in regard to picking up girls of that race should never be locked. I don't think "looks" threads should be locked either. Just because some people can't handle the facts or the truth doesn't mean they shouldn't be discussed among those you can.
 

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To answer the question, as long as it's a privately run board it's whatever the owner says it is. Those not happy can always vote with their feet.
 

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You can always go over to loveshack.org.
 

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It would be hard to vote on anything, especially since some people would inevitably figure out a way to vote multiple times. As at any business, we vote by continuing to use the service.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The only person who scares me is the guy named "Crazy Asian". He seems like the type of guy to shoot up a mall or school with a bulletproof vest.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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lol I'm surprised this thread hasn't been closed yet.
 

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ketostix said:
Wow Dongfu you're really salty about that locked thread of yours aren't you. I personally don't think it should've been locked. And I also think threads about race that are strictly in regard to picking up girls of that race should never be locked. I don't think "looks" threads should be locked either. Just because some people can't handle the facts or the truth doesn't mean they shouldn't be discussed among those you can.
A little salty, maybe :) But as I mentioned, there are many locked threads that I have had an interest in posting in.

I was sincerely interested in guys experiences with women, both foreign and domestic. Would there be another way to word the thread so that it would not be inappropriate for this site. If nothing else, Mods should temporarily lock a thread, PM you what the issues are, then allow you the opportunity to modify the thread so it wont be problematic. That's not too much to ask
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vice said:
Maybe the reason topics get closed is because they erupt into flame wars? I'm 17 and I think alot of the arguments that some guys start here are ridiculous.
So then allowing potentially raced based threads will draw out the Flamers, then we can vote them out.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
You can always go over to loveshack.org.
I'll leave if I'm voted out. You don't really pay that good of attention for a Mod. :whistle:
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Dongfu said:
I'll leave if I'm voted out. You don't really pay that good of attention for a Mod. :whistle:
ROFL... he has 2 rep bars... I've never seen that before haha.
I'm gonna agree with him cause of that :p
 

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the mods are very idiotic with their selection of what threads to lock. Look at this example:

I made a thread 2 weeks ago with very helpful advice, and it just so happened to have the WORD "looks" in it, despite not being about looks.........and it got locked within a day or two. Heres the link to it:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135076


then, I keep seeing these looks threads pop up on Anything else, and the mods right after banning my non-looks thread, end up allowing a blatant stupid looks thread to stay up. Examples:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136049
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134451
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130138

and this one was allowed to stay open for 10 days!!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135110
 

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This forum is not a democracy. Someone owns this forum who delegates who gets to be a mod. Just like if someone you don't like is in your house, you can kick them out. Stop complaining about this or leave the forum.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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