"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Locogooner

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Sometimes I'll open Facebook, search a girl I like on there and spend at least half an hour browsing through her pics thinking what it would be like if we were together. Then I imagine scenarios between me and her. I do this with more than one girl.

I think I need help lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Extremely beta, insane, loco, mad...but so funny!!! :)
As long as you dont harm anybody :)
 

Alex DeLarge

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I used to do that when I had facebook on girls' pages who I had gone on a few dates with. Not so much thinking what it would be like to be with her, but seeing what other guys would write on her wall or just masturbating to her pics if they were revealing.

What other guys would write on their wall would usually piss me off. I'd think the girl would be a playerette b1tch leading me on or something.

I deleted my FB like 3 weeks ago so I get out of that rut though.
 

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browsing through her pics thinking what it would be like if we were together.

Of course she would be perfect, right?...of course

The thing about any beautiful woman is that somebody, somewhere is sick of her sh!t. That's the reality that never creeps into the fantasy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oxford comma

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are you one of those guys that keeps "liking" girls posts. a bunch of my friends do that and it always makes me cringe.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
What other guys would write on their wall would usually piss me off. I'd think the girl would be a playerette b1tch leading me on or something.
Except for the first time I've added her I generally stay away from a girls profile entirely, partly for this but mostly as it's a waste of my time. I've actually had one girl who assumed that I stalked her profile and got mad when I was not only ignorant of some of the things being posted on there but flat out didn't care. "If it didn't show up in my news feed then it couldn't have been important."

oxford comma said:
are you one of those guys that keeps "liking" girls posts. a bunch of my friends do that and it always makes me cringe.
I only click "like" on something if I actually do like it and I rarely click "like" on a photo that the girl actually appears in and if I do only if she's actually doing something cool rather than just taking a mirror shot. I tend to receive many more likes from them than they do from me.
 

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Lol same shyt happened when i first started hangin out with the ex. When we first started chillin, i played it cool never brought up fb, didnt friend her, then about 3 weeks in we became friends. Knowing i prob wouldnt like what i saw, i never clicked on her page OR looked at her pics. thennn like someone else said, she got mad i had never seen her page or pics so together she went thru them all with me(woulda been more fun gettin my nuts tatooed). thennn as time went on we became bf/gf and after awhile of that it rly started to piss me off that she never put that we were "in a relationship" on there(RED FLAGGG) and when we finally did, we broke up a week latr. soo got back together thennn every lil comment & like from all these dudes who i had no idea who they were started to make me f'ing crazy and then for some strange reason the relationship bursted into a flaming ball of shyt.
Fuk facebook.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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