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Locogooner

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Sometimes I'll open Facebook, search a girl I like on there and spend at least half an hour browsing through her pics thinking what it would be like if we were together. Then I imagine scenarios between me and her. I do this with more than one girl.

I think I need help lol.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Extremely beta, insane, loco, mad...but so funny!!! :)
As long as you dont harm anybody :)
 

Alex DeLarge

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I used to do that when I had facebook on girls' pages who I had gone on a few dates with. Not so much thinking what it would be like to be with her, but seeing what other guys would write on her wall or just masturbating to her pics if they were revealing.

What other guys would write on their wall would usually piss me off. I'd think the girl would be a playerette b1tch leading me on or something.

I deleted my FB like 3 weeks ago so I get out of that rut though.
 

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browsing through her pics thinking what it would be like if we were together.

Of course she would be perfect, right?...of course

The thing about any beautiful woman is that somebody, somewhere is sick of her sh!t. That's the reality that never creeps into the fantasy.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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oxford comma

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are you one of those guys that keeps "liking" girls posts. a bunch of my friends do that and it always makes me cringe.
 

Zerro

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Alex DeLarge said:
What other guys would write on their wall would usually piss me off. I'd think the girl would be a playerette b1tch leading me on or something.
Except for the first time I've added her I generally stay away from a girls profile entirely, partly for this but mostly as it's a waste of my time. I've actually had one girl who assumed that I stalked her profile and got mad when I was not only ignorant of some of the things being posted on there but flat out didn't care. "If it didn't show up in my news feed then it couldn't have been important."

oxford comma said:
are you one of those guys that keeps "liking" girls posts. a bunch of my friends do that and it always makes me cringe.
I only click "like" on something if I actually do like it and I rarely click "like" on a photo that the girl actually appears in and if I do only if she's actually doing something cool rather than just taking a mirror shot. I tend to receive many more likes from them than they do from me.
 

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Lol same shyt happened when i first started hangin out with the ex. When we first started chillin, i played it cool never brought up fb, didnt friend her, then about 3 weeks in we became friends. Knowing i prob wouldnt like what i saw, i never clicked on her page OR looked at her pics. thennn like someone else said, she got mad i had never seen her page or pics so together she went thru them all with me(woulda been more fun gettin my nuts tatooed). thennn as time went on we became bf/gf and after awhile of that it rly started to piss me off that she never put that we were "in a relationship" on there(RED FLAGGG) and when we finally did, we broke up a week latr. soo got back together thennn every lil comment & like from all these dudes who i had no idea who they were started to make me f'ing crazy and then for some strange reason the relationship bursted into a flaming ball of shyt.
Fuk facebook.
 
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