"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok, well first of all, shes 18 im 16. she wants to go to a family party. i dont have a car so shes gonna give me a ride, we were thinkin, and i dotn have enought money so i cant pay for a lot so we gonna pay half and half, i dont know if this is right, but wat should i do? and the point to this post is cause i think things arent like they supposed to, shes 18 already! im still 16! she older than me! and she has a car and i dont! and i know myself, i start kissin the gurls the first time i even go out wit them! lol so its gonna be a family party, her dad is gonna be there!!! and i start kisin her daughter out of nowhere, in our first date if u might call it that? lol wat u guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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umm ok well the slow down thingy, lol its gonna be hard for me, but ill try and other, well i can do that, ummm maybe a lil hard too but not soo much as the first one for me lol
 
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When i was reading this I had to look at your name cuz i thought you were someone i know in the same situation. he is 16 she is 18.

ANYWAYS THERE IS NO PROBLEM, I MEAN IF YOUR NERVOUS JUST CALM DOWN.

THERE IS A REASON WHY SHE IS WITH A 16 YEAR OLD, BECAUSE SHE IS INTERESTED.
 
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lol umm yea i guess ur right! lol but still, i might get a lil nervous, i think thats y i even start kissin them in our first date lol
 
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Hey, didnt wanna make a new post, but i need some input.

theres this gurl that i met at a day camp while finishing my community hours. I used typical EC, kino, and than number closed... then talked to her a few times with c and f.

Question: where would be a good idea to meet up with her again. Should i go for a movie, or meet up at a mall? Mind you im going to grade 10, shes going to 11.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick question...

Is it bad to start kissing a girl on the first date?

I do it.

My feeling is, if they want it, which you know they do, especially if the evening had gone really well, then why not?

What do you guys think...:)
 
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Originally posted by DJ-TrickY
Hey, didnt wanna make a new post, but i need some input.

theres this gurl that i met at a day camp while finishing my community hours. I used typical EC, kino, and than number closed... then talked to her a few times with c and f.

Question: where would be a good idea to meet up with her again. Should i go for a movie, or meet up at a mall? Mind you im going to grade 10, shes going to 11.
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i say take her somewhere fun, rollerskating, which no one does anymore so you'll look individualizedish and unique, or the other one, iceskating, same thang.
 
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