"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok, well first of all, shes 18 im 16. she wants to go to a family party. i dont have a car so shes gonna give me a ride, we were thinkin, and i dotn have enought money so i cant pay for a lot so we gonna pay half and half, i dont know if this is right, but wat should i do? and the point to this post is cause i think things arent like they supposed to, shes 18 already! im still 16! she older than me! and she has a car and i dont! and i know myself, i start kissin the gurls the first time i even go out wit them! lol so its gonna be a family party, her dad is gonna be there!!! and i start kisin her daughter out of nowhere, in our first date if u might call it that? lol wat u guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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umm ok well the slow down thingy, lol its gonna be hard for me, but ill try and other, well i can do that, ummm maybe a lil hard too but not soo much as the first one for me lol
 
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When i was reading this I had to look at your name cuz i thought you were someone i know in the same situation. he is 16 she is 18.

ANYWAYS THERE IS NO PROBLEM, I MEAN IF YOUR NERVOUS JUST CALM DOWN.

THERE IS A REASON WHY SHE IS WITH A 16 YEAR OLD, BECAUSE SHE IS INTERESTED.
 
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lol umm yea i guess ur right! lol but still, i might get a lil nervous, i think thats y i even start kissin them in our first date lol
 
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Hey, didnt wanna make a new post, but i need some input.

theres this gurl that i met at a day camp while finishing my community hours. I used typical EC, kino, and than number closed... then talked to her a few times with c and f.

Question: where would be a good idea to meet up with her again. Should i go for a movie, or meet up at a mall? Mind you im going to grade 10, shes going to 11.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quick question...

Is it bad to start kissing a girl on the first date?

I do it.

My feeling is, if they want it, which you know they do, especially if the evening had gone really well, then why not?

What do you guys think...:)
 
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Originally posted by DJ-TrickY
Hey, didnt wanna make a new post, but i need some input.

theres this gurl that i met at a day camp while finishing my community hours. I used typical EC, kino, and than number closed... then talked to her a few times with c and f.

Question: where would be a good idea to meet up with her again. Should i go for a movie, or meet up at a mall? Mind you im going to grade 10, shes going to 11.
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i say take her somewhere fun, rollerskating, which no one does anymore so you'll look individualizedish and unique, or the other one, iceskating, same thang.
 
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