"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this considered cheating?

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Bud_Fox

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If your girlfriend created a fake profile on a dating website, sent you a message, you responded and she caught you........would that be considered cheating?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJuanit0

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Why would you be on a dating website in the first place?!?
Anyway, the answer you're seeking may come from 1 question to yourself.

How would you feel if you found out she had a profile on a dating website and she replied to a stranger? Would you have a problem?

I guess you would, but that's the way to understand why she is right to say that you were cheating! Although not put correctly, she is right to be frustrated!
 

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Bud_Fox said:
If your girlfriend created a fake profile on a dating website, sent you a message, you responded and she caught you........would that be considered cheating?
Depends on what you said to her.
 
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