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Bud_Fox
Guest
If your girlfriend created a fake profile on a dating website, sent you a message, you responded and she caught you........would that be considered cheating?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Why would you be on a dating website in the first place?!?
Anyway, the answer you're seeking may come from 1 question to yourself.
How would you feel if you found out she had a profile on a dating website and she replied to a stranger? Would you have a problem?
I guess you would, but that's the way to understand why she is right to say that you were cheating! Although not put correctly, she is right to be frustrated!
Anyway, the answer you're seeking may come from 1 question to yourself.
How would you feel if you found out she had a profile on a dating website and she replied to a stranger? Would you have a problem?
I guess you would, but that's the way to understand why she is right to say that you were cheating! Although not put correctly, she is right to be frustrated!