Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this chick an AW or no?

gimmeyofonenumba

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Every chick that I've ever been attracted to, and got to know quite well I've been able to label them precisely.This one has me confused beyond belief.

-She has female friends,Has a non-steady boyfriend,She loves attention, she works at a mall kiosk and gets alot of attention from the guys that work around her,Into the drama thing

I first met her because her kiosk was outside the radio shack i worked at. When I first met her i thought she was pretty just not my type, never even tried to talk to her. I didnt care period. Eventually we bump paths and i make sure not to give her attention, this technique worked beautifully, this girl was calling the store and asking for me to come help her move stuff, etc.

I should've made my move there but didnt. A month or 2 pass by and i casually talk to her. Recently though Ive been talkin to her alot, showin her attention, when im standing in my store i can see her glance at me. Ive really been thinkin about this chick, its almost like she used techniques on me to get her to like me. But I have such a strong feeling once i show too much interest that i'll be in her pocket like any other guy, and she'll move on. Whats wierd is when im around her i feel like i control her, i can like see the submisiveness in her face, almost like she's intimidated by me. I thought i was being intimidating so i pretty much stopped the whole c&f thing w/ her alltogether. Whadya dudes think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Every chick that I've ever been attracted to, and got to know quite well I've been able to label them precisely.This one has me confused beyond belief.

-She has female friends,Has a non-steady boyfriend,She loves attention, she works at a mall kiosk and gets alot of attention from the guys that work around her,Into the drama thing

I first met her because her kiosk was outside the radio shack i worked at. When I first met her i thought she was pretty just not my type, never even tried to talk to her. I didnt care period. Eventually we bump paths and i make sure not to give her attention, this technique worked beautifully, this girl was calling the store and asking for me to come help her move stuff, etc.

I should've made my move there but didnt. A month or 2 pass by and i casually talk to her. Recently though Ive been talkin to her alot, showin her attention, when im standing in my store i can see her glance at me. Ive really been thinkin about this chick, its almost like she used techniques on me to get her to like me. But I have such a strong feeling once i show too much interest that i'll be in her pocket like any other guy, and she'll move on. Whats wierd is when im around her i feel like i control her, i can like see the submisiveness in her face, almost like she's intimidated by me. I thought i was being intimidating so i pretty much stopped the whole c&f thing w/ her alltogether. Whadya dudes think?
Its very simple really.

At work tomorrow.

You grab a pen.
some paper.
Walk upto her.

say her name.
Hi ...................
I would like to take you out for a drink, whats your number, i need to get back to work!

Then ring her later on.
 

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nvictor said:
jonwon is right. The idea is to act (try hard to act) as you don't mind the outcome.
No. You don't act as if you don't care. You must know that you don't give two sh!ts what the outcome will be.

Chuck Palahniuk wrote: "Sticking a feather up you butt does not make you a chicken."

Sound words . . .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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