"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Every chick that I've ever been attracted to, and got to know quite well I've been able to label them precisely.This one has me confused beyond belief.

-She has female friends,Has a non-steady boyfriend,She loves attention, she works at a mall kiosk and gets alot of attention from the guys that work around her,Into the drama thing

I first met her because her kiosk was outside the radio shack i worked at. When I first met her i thought she was pretty just not my type, never even tried to talk to her. I didnt care period. Eventually we bump paths and i make sure not to give her attention, this technique worked beautifully, this girl was calling the store and asking for me to come help her move stuff, etc.

I should've made my move there but didnt. A month or 2 pass by and i casually talk to her. Recently though Ive been talkin to her alot, showin her attention, when im standing in my store i can see her glance at me. Ive really been thinkin about this chick, its almost like she used techniques on me to get her to like me. But I have such a strong feeling once i show too much interest that i'll be in her pocket like any other guy, and she'll move on. Whats wierd is when im around her i feel like i control her, i can like see the submisiveness in her face, almost like she's intimidated by me. I thought i was being intimidating so i pretty much stopped the whole c&f thing w/ her alltogether. Whadya dudes think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gimmeyofonenumba said:
Every chick that I've ever been attracted to, and got to know quite well I've been able to label them precisely.This one has me confused beyond belief.

-She has female friends,Has a non-steady boyfriend,She loves attention, she works at a mall kiosk and gets alot of attention from the guys that work around her,Into the drama thing

I first met her because her kiosk was outside the radio shack i worked at. When I first met her i thought she was pretty just not my type, never even tried to talk to her. I didnt care period. Eventually we bump paths and i make sure not to give her attention, this technique worked beautifully, this girl was calling the store and asking for me to come help her move stuff, etc.

I should've made my move there but didnt. A month or 2 pass by and i casually talk to her. Recently though Ive been talkin to her alot, showin her attention, when im standing in my store i can see her glance at me. Ive really been thinkin about this chick, its almost like she used techniques on me to get her to like me. But I have such a strong feeling once i show too much interest that i'll be in her pocket like any other guy, and she'll move on. Whats wierd is when im around her i feel like i control her, i can like see the submisiveness in her face, almost like she's intimidated by me. I thought i was being intimidating so i pretty much stopped the whole c&f thing w/ her alltogether. Whadya dudes think?
Its very simple really.

At work tomorrow.

You grab a pen.
some paper.
Walk upto her.

say her name.
Hi ...................
I would like to take you out for a drink, whats your number, i need to get back to work!

Then ring her later on.
 

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nvictor said:
jonwon is right. The idea is to act (try hard to act) as you don't mind the outcome.
No. You don't act as if you don't care. You must know that you don't give two sh!ts what the outcome will be.

Chuck Palahniuk wrote: "Sticking a feather up you butt does not make you a chicken."

Sound words . . .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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