"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is this being a Don Juan?

Rook

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someone else want to take this one as their wing.... I don't have the energy.

Look man. I wasn't trying to insult you by calling you a girl... just with so many new lovechicks (whatever) site coming over here, there are many people posing as what they want to be.. guy/girl hermaphrodites, etc.

Okay, you never mentioned your age. I'm not trying to be a d!ck, but dude... read between the lines! In fact... re-read all the lines in every post you have made!

I gave you advice in that linked post. Did you even read it?

You are AFC as all get go. I will let others figure you out and help you.

Peace

I truly wish you the best of luck in both love and in life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rook

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Holy cow! I've been bamboozled.... you are a LS chick. GTFO!

Seriously.

You offer nothing here. You are a troll. You are dead to me. Go Away.

If you think I'm just making this up... look up all her recent threads... and responses!

On a side note... how can I put someone on ignore? Went to her profile and couldn't find the option.
 

splinterkb

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Mavrick said:
A man shouldn't stay on the phone longer than 10 minutes with any woman. Yes, your boy is AFC and not Don Juan. If he was, he'd see all the red flags and run for the next woman or multiple women.
I'll talk on the phone with my GORGEOUS girlfriend for sometimes an hour.... and just because you found someone who can actually carry on a decentn convo doesn't mean you're an AFC.
 

sosilky

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Rook said:
Holy cow! I've been bamboozled.... you are a LS chick. GTFO!

Seriously.

You offer nothing here. You are a troll. You are dead to me. Go Away.

On a side note... how can I put someone on ignore? Went to her profile and couldn't find the option.
this guy is a fool
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rook

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And you either have down syndrome, or you are a chick from LS posing as something you are not.

You start a post, then every reply is $, or other utter nonsense.

Go away, and stop PM'ing child

How can i put this girl on ignore!
 

sosilky

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Rook said:
And you either have down syndrome, or you are a chick from LS posing as something you are not.

You start a post, then every reply is $, or other utter nonsense.

Go away, and stop PM'ing child

How can i put this girl on ignore!
dude I'm not asking you to comunicate with me i started this thread peace out psycho
 

sosilky

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Rook said:
Yep... It's a sh!t test.... She just sh!tted on you. Are you gonna take it? do nothing? Respond with anger, hurt? The relationship was done well before a girl cheats on you... you were just too AFC to see it. But how do you respond? That is the test. "is a great test to see if you are mature, mentally balanced, and secure in yourself." Has nothing to do with her.... this is about you!
could someone explain to me why someone being cheated on is a sh!t test? If shes cheating in you why would she care to test you reaction?
 

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he is not being a don juan he is being a helpless slave to the white trash pvssy
 
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