"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this being a Don Juan?

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someone else want to take this one as their wing.... I don't have the energy.

Look man. I wasn't trying to insult you by calling you a girl... just with so many new lovechicks (whatever) site coming over here, there are many people posing as what they want to be.. guy/girl hermaphrodites, etc.

Okay, you never mentioned your age. I'm not trying to be a d!ck, but dude... read between the lines! In fact... re-read all the lines in every post you have made!

I gave you advice in that linked post. Did you even read it?

You are AFC as all get go. I will let others figure you out and help you.

Peace

I truly wish you the best of luck in both love and in life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Holy cow! I've been bamboozled.... you are a LS chick. GTFO!

Seriously.

You offer nothing here. You are a troll. You are dead to me. Go Away.

If you think I'm just making this up... look up all her recent threads... and responses!

On a side note... how can I put someone on ignore? Went to her profile and couldn't find the option.
 
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Mavrick said:
A man shouldn't stay on the phone longer than 10 minutes with any woman. Yes, your boy is AFC and not Don Juan. If he was, he'd see all the red flags and run for the next woman or multiple women.
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I'll talk on the phone with my GORGEOUS girlfriend for sometimes an hour.... and just because you found someone who can actually carry on a decentn convo doesn't mean you're an AFC.
 
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Rook said:
Holy cow! I've been bamboozled.... you are a LS chick. GTFO!

Seriously.

You offer nothing here. You are a troll. You are dead to me. Go Away.

On a side note... how can I put someone on ignore? Went to her profile and couldn't find the option.
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this guy is a fool
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And you either have down syndrome, or you are a chick from LS posing as something you are not.

You start a post, then every reply is $, or other utter nonsense.

Go away, and stop PM'ing child

How can i put this girl on ignore!
 
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Rook said:
And you either have down syndrome, or you are a chick from LS posing as something you are not.

You start a post, then every reply is $, or other utter nonsense.

Go away, and stop PM'ing child

How can i put this girl on ignore!
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dude I'm not asking you to comunicate with me i started this thread peace out psycho
 
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Rook said:
Yep... It's a sh!t test.... She just sh!tted on you. Are you gonna take it? do nothing? Respond with anger, hurt? The relationship was done well before a girl cheats on you... you were just too AFC to see it. But how do you respond? That is the test. "is a great test to see if you are mature, mentally balanced, and secure in yourself." Has nothing to do with her.... this is about you!
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could someone explain to me why someone being cheated on is a sh!t test? If shes cheating in you why would she care to test you reaction?
 
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he is not being a don juan he is being a helpless slave to the white trash pvssy
 
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