is this an rejection

[ThaDJ]

ok this is how i told this to my friend... it exatly the same convo i had w/ her.. in person!!

ok well

she works w/ me

and goes to same school

ok so i went up to her

and i was like hey whats up

and she was like nothin

she asked me what i was doing tonite

i told her nothing yet

ok so then i ask her what she is doing tomorrow

she said that she is hanging out w/ some friends

i was like ok

she wasked me why i asked

i just said that i just was wondering if she wanted to hang out

: she was like i promised to hang out w/ that person

i was like ok

then i was like well ill ttyl

and i left



all of this happend like around 9 eastern... store closes at 9... so i ppl were pretty much kicking me out

ok so i already know that i should have gotten her # lol

u guys think i still have a chance?

 

[souporman]

Dude.. buddy.. pal...

Come on.

The girl had plans before hand. She has a life, and is busy at times.

 

[ThaDJ]

lol thats what i was thinking lol

 

[Double_Diamonds]

Is this an rejection?
No good sir, that is an Erection!

 

[I-am-someone]

Like... you totally like blew it man...
You should have like asked her for her number or, like, pursued a bit more, you know...
But whatever, sh!t happens.

 

[Finlay]

not neccesarily, you didnt directly ask her to hang out with you, you asked her what she was up to ( usually not a bad move )

you were just unfortunate dude.

try again one more time another day and if it doesnt work then move on, at least your talking to girls, thats one positive that can be taklen out of the situation.

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

also, you shouldn't have told her you weren't doing anything that night. this is a sign that you HAVE no life. plus, saying nothing "yet" suggests that if she asked you to do something, you would jump up like a salivating pavlov's dog.

you blew it

 

[ThaDJ]

Actually, everything is good. She actually wanted to hang out with me that night. I just didnt catch that. Im talking to her right now and everything seems to be going good. I got her #

 

[Mr. Debonaire]

i stand corrected...

FLUKE!

lmao

still, never tell a girl your not busy. im not just spouting the bible, be busy as much as possible and try to make time for her. remember, YOUR the catch

 

[Jerky Boi]

Well nice job man. But for future reference, make sure you at least look like you have some plans that night. A girl wants someone who will bring a little excitement to their life.


Oh yea, and instead of asking her what she's doing for the next day, you probably should have asked her when's the next day she'd be available. You would have gotten a better response. Good luck and happy hunting