"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this an excuse or truth.

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Here's the story:

-I'm at my friend's house with two other guys and a girl
-This girl thinks I'm cute and wants to makeout.
-I'm getting drunk as the night goes on.
-Finally we start kissing because the other two guys left the room.
-They come back and we stop.
-I don't remember what happens, but the other two guys and the girl are in another room talking, I'm watching t.v. on the couch, wasted.
-I tell my friend to have the girl come back but he says she doesn't want to.
-He tells me she said I was too drunk and she didn't want to anymore.
-The girl makes out with my friend who brought the alcohol for awhile, longer than she did with me.
-This guy was drunk but wasnt acting like it, he had drank before so he could "hold himself" better.

So I'm just wondering if "being to drunk" was the reason why she didn't want to do anything. She definately wanted to and said I was cute. :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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slut. girls like that me and my buds call 'passovers'...you mess around, in ten minutes its over and you pass her on. being too drunk is a popular reason with girls, and unless you did something stupid (give her way too much attention etc) it was probably true. dont go broken hearted over it.
 
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She was being quiet while we were drinking and she kept asking my friend "why wont he kiss me".

And we only kissed for a short time... like a few minutes?
 
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you were slow to be assertive but at least you got in there. you got too drunk, she got annoyed and passedover to another guy. lesson learned, pass the bottle early next time.
 
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So she just got pissed and left for the other guy? That doesn't explain why she kissed me for a little while and then left.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm just kinda pissed because she left for some guy that didn't like her o_0
 
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well thats the lesson of the girl going for the guy who doesnt want her. its clear now...you wanted her, she got bored, went for the guy who didnt give a shiit.
 
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I don't think so because the guy didn't like her as a person.

But whatever. I do have a question though. Before I got drunk we were all on the couch and she wasnt talking like at all. It was awkward and I didnt know how to start a conversation or move by her without making it weird.

How do I get close to a girl when it's like this?
 
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Yeah so the girl was a little bit slutty, so what?

I think you guys need to get out more, I mean you go to a club and girls will kiss you before they know your name sometimes. It doesn't really matter. I mean some of you guys seem to approach every girl as a possible g/f.

You all seem to be just trying to be DJ's instead of being PUA(Pick-up Artists) and DJ's.

To everyone who posted to forget about her becuase she is a slut is going to lose so many hookups in their life that they could have had its not even funny.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I should've mentioned a few other things. I had no intentions of dating this girl, hell I might not ever see her again. So I'm kinda pissed that I screwed the chance to kiss her any longer than we did. My friend lives an hour's drive away from my house <_<.

And I'm not old enough to go clubbing. I can't say my age because of things that are illegal and legal...

But my question is, in a generic situation. What would be the best way to get a girl to talk more and open up? Just be goofy/ funny? I can do that I just need to be not be shy :)

EDIT: I'm pretty sure that she got annoyed that I took forever to make the move.
 
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coolguy676767 said:
Yeah so the girl was a little bit slutty, so what?

I think you guys need to get out more, I mean you go to a club and girls will kiss you before they know your name sometimes. It doesn't really matter. I mean some of you guys seem to approach every girl as a possible g/f.

You all seem to be just trying to be DJ's instead of being PUA(Pick-up Artists) and DJ's.

To everyone who posted to forget about her becuase she is a slut is going to lose so many hookups in their life that they could have had its not even funny.
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oh dont underrate sluts, theyre lifesavers. he just wanted to know why she was making out with him and then making out with another guy minutes later
 
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I also have to add, my friend just told me some stuff that I don't remember at all. So I really don't remember the whole situation with the girl. We could have been going at it for 1-30 minutes.

I'll have to talk to him about it later.
 
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