You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:werd:Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.
Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.
Both are very real possibilities.
You guys aren't together, go find other women.
Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.
I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.
1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.
Take it easy,
Dominant
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Whats this, a man back on the board? True.Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.
Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.
Both are very real possibilities.
You guys aren't together, go find other women.
Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.
I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.
1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.
Take it easy,
Dominant
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.