Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
:werd:Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.
Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.
Both are very real possibilities.
You guys aren't together, go find other women.
Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.
I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.
1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.
Take it easy,
Dominant
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats this, a man back on the board? True.Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.
Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.
Both are very real possibilities.
You guys aren't together, go find other women.
Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.
I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.
1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.
Take it easy,
Dominant
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.