I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:werd:Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.
Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.
Both are very real possibilities.
You guys aren't together, go find other women.
Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.
I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.
1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.
Take it easy,
Dominant
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats this, a man back on the board? True.Originally posted by Dominant
General rule with women is not give a damn what they think.
Who knows what she's thinking, honestly. It can range from actually concentrating on the papers to her boning some other dude without you knowing.
Both are very real possibilities.
You guys aren't together, go find other women.
Oh yeah, and don't take her resistance to see you personally. She's just being retarded.
I mean two whole weeks? She expects you to wait two weeks to see her again? Please, she can spare two hours to kick it.
1. Don't care what's going on in her head.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Find other women (if you can't do this, then you have bigger problems to deal with).
4. Always have more than one girl.
Take it easy,
Dominant
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.