shesabranchswinger
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Yeah I guess our costumes don't make us Alpha enough
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this an example of Alpha-Male behavior? (Picture)
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Yeah I guess our costumes don't make us Alpha enough"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I would say that unless you are gay, a woman is in the perfect person to explain what makes a man.
Nor does tattooing Moron across your forehead.
That is actually the reply I would expect from an alpha man. All I am really saying is that a person cannot pretend to be something he is not. Also NOT being an alpha does not at all mean that a man isn't a real man or doesn't have unique talents and skills that will benefit the group. Some of the bravest and best men are not alpha but strong enough to realise that following an alpha will lead to survival of the unit. Its not about superior or inferior. Far from it.
Our species survives by everyone being valued for their contributions. It doesn't survive very well at all when people are pressured to be someone they are not. Women need to be allowed to be women and should not have their feminine traits frowned on or seen as weakness but admired and seen as strengths. Same with men, they should be allowed to have their male traits seen as strengths and be respected for them. There is space for us all to be what our natures tell us to be.
I was hoping you were going to say black leather studded gloves.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RichardTheFrog
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What?????
I broke my neck and almost spent my whole life in a wheelchair. Does that make me a "man" to you? Or does it just NOT MATTER WHAT YOU THINK because you don't know anything?????
This post and this poster should be ignored.
RichardTheFrog
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Please get off this forum.
It has been well established that 99.999% of females are not worth anyone's time.
You are not the exception.
You do not have knowledge to contribute.
RangerMIke
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Handicapped parking in the US is a fvcking joke. Some big fat @ss can just go to the doctor and get one of danging mirror chads to use 'handicapped' parking. They have preferred parking, then go into stores and walk around for half a mile.
My dad is an 80 year old Vietnam vet... wounded twice, with knees replaced and he doesn't use handicapped parking. You should hear him go off on people they are just too fat an lazy to walk a few extra steps. Handicapped parking should be for people who need WHEELCHAIRS, or women in the last trimester of a pregnancy, if you are so weak that you can't walk through a parking lot, then you are too weak to walk around in a store. Handicapped parking used to be larger so people with wheelchairs could get in and out of their cars safely.
Handicapped parking should not be for people who are unwilling to watch what they eat and take care of themselves.
Having said that... parking in a 'handicapped' space isn't Alpha... it is weak behavior. Real men are like my father... who even though they are entitled to privilege, surrender it because they are too proud to accept advantage.
My dad is an 80 year old Vietnam vet... wounded twice, with knees replaced and he doesn't use handicapped parking. You should hear him go off on people they are just too fat an lazy to walk a few extra steps. Handicapped parking should be for people who need WHEELCHAIRS, or women in the last trimester of a pregnancy, if you are so weak that you can't walk through a parking lot, then you are too weak to walk around in a store. Handicapped parking used to be larger so people with wheelchairs could get in and out of their cars safely.
Handicapped parking should not be for people who are unwilling to watch what they eat and take care of themselves.
Having said that... parking in a 'handicapped' space isn't Alpha... it is weak behavior. Real men are like my father... who even though they are entitled to privilege, surrender it because they are too proud to accept advantage.
Get stuffed
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
RichardTheFrog
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Just like people take advantage of other aspects of welfare every chance they get.
And don't even get me started on the school system. I haven't been in an elementary/middle school in decades, but I'm pretty sure it's ****ed up. I'm pretty sure they dumb down the whole school just so the slow kids can pass.
If I ever had kids, I would homeschool them.
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RichardTheFrog
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See?
...no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil....
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He parks there so that people don't sing his car with their doors, which can be accomplished by parking in an area where there are no cars or parking at the end of the row of cars, next to the curb. This guy should get a ticket for parceling in a handicapped spot--that will teach him a $400 lesson.
shesabranchswinger
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Sure right behind a man first then a gay man then a woman then a gay woman then a child.
A woman can have an idea of what she thinks a man is or should be and she may even be rite, just like a man can have an idea of what a real woman is or should be. But I'm sure you have a better understanding of what it is to be a woman than I do as I'm sure I have a better understanding of what it is to be a man.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
shesabranchswinger
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I've seen some pretty alpha morons with tattoos across their forehead. Mike Tyson comes to mind.
Everyone of those guys in my class even the white belts would own 95 percent of the population worldwide in a hand to hand situation. That's not bragging it's just the facts. 90% of people do not take self defense and would not know what to do in a life of death situation. That doesn't make us better then them just prepared for the situation. Are there morons mixed in yes just like all walks of life their are morons and hacks in every field of life. Just pray your next doctor is not a hack because their out there and it's on you to choose caveot emptor buyers beware.
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I agree with that to some degree but in my experience respect was not given it was earned. People are going to disagree and frown upon you and I throughout our life's. But if you make a plan set a course stick to the plan follow the blueprint and execute step by step then you will reach your goals and in turn respect comes naturally.
shesabranchswinger
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Well keep hoping @Plums because there pink leather rhinestone gloves
RichardTheFrog
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.