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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I would say that unless you are gay, a woman is in the perfect person to explain what makes a man.So a woman telling a man what makes a man that's rich.
Nor does tattooing Moron across your forehead.View attachment 773 Yeah I guess our costumes don't make us Alpha enough
That is actually the reply I would expect from an alpha man. All I am really saying is that a person cannot pretend to be something he is not. Also NOT being an alpha does not at all mean that a man isn't a real man or doesn't have unique talents and skills that will benefit the group. Some of the bravest and best men are not alpha but strong enough to realise that following an alpha will lead to survival of the unit. Its not about superior or inferior. Far from it.@Plums those are all very alpha careers I'm familiar with most of them having friends or family in most of them. As for martial arts I've been involved in them since a kid and have been around many alpha types and I'm alpha in most physical and mental aspects or at least that side of alpha. I'm not trying to call you out or bring disrespect to you. I've just seen it from within as a man myself and those are some of the traits I've picked up. And that's just how I respond to those situations, some men sit back others lead I'm not playing possum for anyone.
I was hoping you were going to say black leather studded gloves.If it were in class It would be my GI or no GI. If it were on the streets it would be normal clothing a suit or casual wear hell it could even be naked coming out of the shower at the gym. I could care less he's getting confronted if he confronts me win loose or draw
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What?????I would say that unless you are gay, a woman is in the perfect person to explain what makes a man.
Did I just hear a girl say that military guys are overrated?
You have no idea how long I've been waiting to hear that.
Please get off this forum.
Sorry to contradict myself...but uniforms can be sexy..
What?????
I broke my neck and almost spent my whole life in a wheelchair. Does that make me a "man" to you? Or does it just NOT MATTER WHAT YOU THINK because you don't know anything?????
This post and this poster should be ignored.
Get stuffedPlease get off this forum.
It has been well established that 99.999% of females are not worth anyone's time.
You are not the exception.
You do not have knowledge to contribute.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just like people take advantage of other aspects of welfare every chance they get.Handicapped parking in the US is a fvcking joke. Some big fat @ss can just go to the doctor and get one of danging mirror chads to use 'handicapped' parking. They have preferred parking, then go into stores and walk around for half a mile.
My dad is an 80 year old Vietnam vet... wounded twice, with knees replaced and he doesn't use handicapped parking. You should hear him go off on people they are just too fat an lazy to walk a few extra steps. Handicapped parking should be for people who need WHEELCHAIRS, or women in the last trimester of a pregnancy, if you are so weak that you can't walk through a parking lot, then you are too weak to walk around in a store. Handicapped parking used to be larger so people with wheelchairs could get in and out of their cars safely.
Handicapped parking should not be for people who are unwilling to watch what they eat and take care of themselves.
Having said that... parking in a 'handicapped' space isn't Alpha... it is weak behavior. Real men are like my father... who even though they are entitled to privilege, surrender it because they are too proud to accept advantage.
See?Get stuffed
...no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil....See?
Sure right behind a man first then a gay man then a woman then a gay woman then a child.I would say that unless you are gay, a woman is in the perfect person to explain what makes a man.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I've seen some pretty alpha morons with tattoos across their forehead. Mike Tyson comes to mind.Nor does tattooing Moron across your forehead.
I agree with that to some degree but in my experience respect was not given it was earned. People are going to disagree and frown upon you and I throughout our life's. But if you make a plan set a course stick to the plan follow the blueprint and execute step by step then you will reach your goals and in turn respect comes naturally.That is actually the reply I would expect from an alpha man. All I am really saying is that a person cannot pretend to be something he is not. Also NOT being an alpha does not at all mean that a man isn't a real man or doesn't have unique talents and skills that will benefit the group. Some of the bravest and best men are not alpha but strong enough to realise that following an alpha will lead to survival of the unit. Its not about superior or inferior. Far from it.
Our species survives by everyone being valued for their contributions. It doesn't survive very well at all when people are pressured to be someone they are not. Women need to be allowed to be women and should not have their feminine traits frowned on or seen as weakness but admired and seen as strengths. Same with men, they should be allowed to have their male traits seen as strengths and be respected for them. There is space for us all to be what our natures tell us to be.
Well keep hoping @Plums because there pink leather rhinestone glovesI was hoping you were going to say black leather studded gloves.
You mean use a gun?I've seen some pretty alpha morons with tattoos across their forehead. Mike Tyson comes to mind.
Everyone of those guys in my class even the white belts would own 95 percent of the population worldwide in a hand to hand situation. That's not bragging it's just the facts. 90% of people do not take self defense and would not know what to do in a life of death situation. That doesn't make us better then them just prepared for the situation. Are there morons mixed in yes just like all walks of life their are morons and hacks in every field of life. Just pray your next doctor is not a hack because their out there and it's on you to choose caveot emptor buyers beware.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.